Transcript with Captain Hunter 2

Transcript with Captain Hunter 2

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Welcome to Real. Raw With Dr B This nationally published author and pastor has made it, his life’s work to helping people strengthened their relationship with God themselves and each other with 25 years as a licensed counselor, coupled with his own life experiences with the ups and downs of married and single life. It’s like having a counseling session right in your own home. So without any further ado, it’s time for Real Raw With Dr B Oh my goodness.

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Which is a Dr B and you missed our first segment with Captain Hunter you missed a good one. You can definitely play yet. And he did not arrest me. So that’s good news in Jesus name. Amen. So Captain Hunter is having me on his, his, his podcast. And we just want to get some information about the podcast. So, sir, what do you want me to talk about on this podcast?

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Yeah, so we’re going to have dr. B in, in, I believe one or two other ladies. We’ll definitely one working on another lady. I’m also working on trying to get a guy on there to talk about the why. So many of us are struggling with our relationship with other black men. Can’t get along like women. Yeah. Let’s start right there. Why do you think that? And I’ll give you my opinion, my professional opinion. I think that, I think that we have a lot of trauma in our, in our history and we are struggling.

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I think that relationships just in general, in Western cultures are struggling, right? Women want to be equal, treated equally, make the same amount of money, right. And then you don’t want to bring this together into a family dynamic to a household. And I think there’s a lot of clashing going on there. So I think that, so I think that couple that with you add that particular one layer, and then you had the next layer of our trauma within our history of black men, not being able to make enough and kept out of colleges, not being allowed to make it to the top echelon of society.

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Right. I think that really is just a toxic, toxic mix from our perspective. I see that. And the reason why, especially black women, black men are not have I’m having issues because especially the black woman has seen so poor examples, a good black man, I cannot tell you how many people come into my office. Don’t know what their father is, mom, for lack of better word or ran a courthouse.

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And so they’ve never seen, or the more popular issue is that they were all run by Amazons. In other words, they all women in the house. So anyway, so, so

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Yeah, so, so because of that, and that’s no disrespect, but, but, but because of that, when a good man comes in, they don’t know how to handle it. Don’t know how to deal with it. They just automatically take that sledgehammer. Is it Batman? And don’t get the guy,

1 (3m 22s):
I chanced it all. And so that’s why some women are able to find men, but they don’t give them a chance for them to be good because they have minus or, you know, the bias. You talked about that bias already that you won’t treat me back. Yeah. So I think that we need a lot of therapy therapy within our communities. That’s why I call it that the B to come in. Okay. I’m sorry, collectively to, we need a log in map. Yeah. Yeah. So I think that, that, I think that, that matters. So I want to have a conversation about that. Like to have your, your opinion on and hope that other people can tune it.

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And so we can begin to melt our hearts and tear down these barriers and walls and not when somebody walks in the door automatically think this, that or the other. So yeah, I think that that’s my perspective. And please join in is that we have never, as a people healed from slavery, that’s just my personal opinion. And no, I’m not trying to stay in the past, but as I do my counseling sessions,

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It’s hard to leave the past when you keep being,

1 (4m 28s):
It reminded out the past. Well, that’s exactly what I, well, what I meant when I said to trauma, right? So I agree with that. I think that a lot more trauma was, was set upon us during Jim Crow are definitely say, I mean, I almost think it was probably worse, right? The guy of slavery, you knew what you were definitely started, but, but in Jim Crow, you know, the lynching was nothing to that person. It’s sent a message to the community and the community was the proper message you get out of place and this was going to happen to you quickly.

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And so it wasn’t just about that. It was about, and I talked a little bit about the history of, of men not being in the home shot of men, not being able to go to the top. So what a man can’t is, is, is forced to be the bottom of the barrel of society. He’s gonna, he’s gonna develop some things and run away from those responsibilities that he’s created. Right. And that’s why he talked about when men, when women haven’t seen a good man, right? Cause in the houses, one of my Amazon, because it’s good men weren’t sticking around.

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They didn’t know how to B

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And have to do that because the man is

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Because the man is not there or because he’s not, he’s not able to support them. Right. You look at some of the stuff that was going on in the thirties, forties and fifties. But when, when the woman was, was at home and the Susie homemaker, that was not the experience of black people, right. The woman always had to work always because the man didn’t make enough. Correct. And so, or he wasn’t there. Those are those, I mean, of course there were obviously exceptions, there were some black men in the whole front and the South area. Right. Right. So, so, but as far as making enough and making sure everything, that was just not the experience.

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Well, well, here’s the backdrop and let’s go back to Jim Crow. The backdrop of, of Jim Crowe is 1877. So you know, 1885 and we have

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Your mom, Lincoln did, Andrew Johnson came in then after Andrew Johnson then came mr. Grant one $50 bill. And so when he left office Ruth behaves, which will be

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Present after grant brokered a deal with the Southern Democrats.

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And he said to them, because after the civil war, I B,

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Of course they’d agree with Derek, but lobby don’t understand. After civil war,

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The South was treated like a occupied enemy area. And so all the union forces were in the South South and like that, you know, okay, you beat us and now you have your foot on our neck. So when Ruth behaves Capt and, and he wanted the backing to become the president, he said, listen, you vote for me. I will remove.

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And the, the federal soldiers. And when he did that to hack them, all these laws in the South,

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That, for the Southern person, it gave them a feel of back in the room.

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That’s the backdrop or absolutely. Absolutely. Right. So that was the end of, as you mentioned reconstruction, correct? Correct. And so, and then, so from there we get a convict leasing or these different criminalization of laws, vagrancy and all this kind of nonsense. Right? So again, this took black men out of the cropping the whole bit is that two black men out of the home had to get arrested for not having a job or I can see no, they got to go work in the mine and all that kind of stuff. So now I’m away from the home away from the home, not, and who’s protecting them.

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So this is the trauma, this is the legacy. Right. And then we’re being experimented on medically. Right. We don’t want to talk about that. Right. Right. So let’s on down. Yes, yes, yes. So, so this is the, this is the trauma that we had to deal with. And it seems as if there was no protectors with, within us. Correct.

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And, and, and I think, you know, something about America that we cannot deny.

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There’s been atrocities like crazy with the American Indian, with alpha Americans,

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You know, people forget that women could not be, and they had to have an amendment, the 19th amendment

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And doing mr. The president escapes me right now, Woodrow Wilson. So of course,

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And even vote. So, I mean, there’s been a, a spirit of oppression. And if I ever get the national, I will say

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America, the reason why we’re still having problems with oppression, racism, because we never healed. And,

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And as you, and I both know, if you do not heal from a womb, it becomes effective. Did it become septic toxic? And that cycle keeps going. Yeah.

1 (9m 13s):
And that’s why America is in the places. And right now that’s my own personal, well, I don’t disagree with you at all. I was fortunate to be on another podcast and they asked me, what’s the first thing that the police can do. I don’t want to bring this back to them, but they said that, but I said, the first thing we needed to do is forget about the Police. We use ever national recognition about what’s going on. Right. I have to hit you on that one. Real good in a good way, because he has a Captain many of the carrots.

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I won’t, I ain’t going to hit her because I’m smart.

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But one thing we could take a page from Self

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And South Africa,

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The way they, and no government is perfect, but the way they translate

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And when a parte stopped and they released Mandela, personally, I thought they will go to Netflix. Now I may, because I was leading with the rage, the negativity,

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We know what they did. They sat down in the committee and the white South Africans did a public apology. And they probably did some other things behind the scene, but there was a public identifying of what they’ve done. We have some people who don’t believe there was slavery.

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I don’t know. I didn’t, I didn’t know. I never heard that

2 (10m 34s):
There are people that don’t believe in that alone. I mean, we don’t believe in Sandy hook took place. I mean, I mean, so, so, so, so there’s a, there’s a psychotic issue in America.

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So that says that

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We will not recognize reality.

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Yeah. I think that that’s very evident when we talk about, you talked about the reckoning that South Africa had. Yeah. It’s also evident in what Germany did with Germany did excellent blank. There’s nobody wandering around here with swastikas in Germany. Excellent. And we dealt with it, correct? We had people in this country when we want to take it down from, from NASCAR racist or having a,

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Absolutely.

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This is Jeremy. I’m going to admit something that I never knew. I never knew that some, that there were many new military basis named after Confederate soldiers. I didn’t know either. I do not know that I go further. I didn’t know that in the capital of the Senate, there are statutes of Confederate. I didn’t know. And so, but where we have to ask yourself, what kind of madness is this? Right. These people picking up with the racism issue, they forget about traders. They tried to overthrow the U S government. And we have military bases named after them.

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And This and any president, but this guy is sitting up there saying it’s okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That is much. So this is the racial record and we need to have, there was no apology. There’s no saying we should not have done that. If you don’t apologize, you don’t start. You can’t start the healing again with marriage counseling, the guy saying, I’m sorry, I’m sorry. Hunter but you still got the messages on your phone, your counsel, you had to go pick her up.

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And, and that’s what,

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Of course, maybe I’m so sorry

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That it was going on with America is that we want to move on, but you can’t move on until your first recognize.

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And think about the hip hop hip hop, the absolute with the pockets. He is telling us to move on and stop talking about slavery. Stop coming up to Crow. Stop talking after you had a black president, but never forget nine 11, never come up. Never. You can’t have it both way. December 7th is, will run. Everybody knows what date that is. Pearl Harbor. Listen, you can’t have it both ways. Either somethings are going to be stuck in a collective memory, correct? July 4th, Memorial day, all these things that are, that we have that are dedicated to remembering what happened to us. Right? But we can’t remember this particular thing. So there’s something about, about the presence of black people in America.

1 (13m 8s):
That is, that drives people nuts. I’ll tell you what it is. As a therapist is really it’s reminding them of what happened and what they did was wrong. So instead of them saying, you know what, it is the wrong thing, you know, let me just say, ignore it again. You cannot ignore an open sore. You cannot, because it’s going to be septic is going. And that’s what we see in America. And I think that’s why, you know, so much racism has just come to the surface.

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Cause it was there all along. Yeah. It was definitely

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What is creating. It was there.

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And it took someone and high powered. Is that right? Yeah. That’s what I agree with him a thousand percent. So it wasn’t gonna talk about on this podcast, we’ve already talked about it already. We’re gonna explore it. You know, we’re going to get a lady’s point of view and we’re going to try to try to work through these things. Let’s talk about some of the things that ladies go through when they’re dating, how they, how they interact. Some of the things that guys tell them. I know that I’m probably gonna catch a lot of heat for the State brother is going to call me and be like, why you don’t tell secrets?

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And I will tell you a secret and given the way the gay brother, I understand that. But I’m going to tell you why I’m going to do it because of, of the trauma and the history that we have just that we talked about. And so therefore I have a daughter. I want to, you have a dog. Yes, sir. You have a wife, you have a wife. Yes, sir. You have a, and so everyone, every woman deserves to be treated with dignity and respect and they don’t deserve to be lied, to played with correct human beings, be straight forward with it. And men, many times don’t understand this.

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And because we’re thinking selfishly with our second head, right. That we don’t care about the damage that we’re doing and not only to their own, to their psyches, right? Because these women will grow up and raise boys and we’ll take out that trauma on them, correct. Repeating the cycle, as you say, and then they’ll go to work and then they’ll, they’ll talk to the boss, all kind of crazy. And then I’m going and they talk to him crazy. And then, and then they’re, they’re in, they’re in the home and the better and the mad and it’s creates such a toxic problem with that. Well, again, America is full of hypocrisy.

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So, so, so, so how many times do I see men say, well, if my wife cheated on gone, but let them, she baby, please stay. I mean, that’s approximate. Let’s go further. So you treat the mama, like she’s a female dog. I will say the word of the cell with a B, but you treat the daughter like a princess that is hypocrisy. And, and I get a lot of men attention. And when I say, I said, listen, look at how you’re seeing your daughter. And I said, the way you’re treating your wife, it gives them all the time.

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Would you want your daughter to bring someone like you home? And the guy really said, Aw, man. I said, well, you have to be teaching her to do. And this becomes that modeling behavior that we need to see, right. Do we need to do we, as men need to say, come on how we want to treat our daughters. I mean, have to show our wives like that. We had, we had to, like, we had to treat everyone right. Which will not treat the most important women in our lives like that. And This, and so this is a tough conversation. I admit very tough compensated, but, but needed counseling, but it’s a need a conversation. If we’re going to have any type of healing without a community, if we’re going to be able to, to, to, to go somewhere as a people, we have to have strong community

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Let’s go there. Here’s something else that, that bothers me. A lot of times we’re looking for the outside world to heal us. And I really feel, again, I could be wrong, but I don’t think I am. We need to learn how to heal ourselves, because if we’re always looking well, he got no, no, you have

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To do some work. Is that again, to me, America reminds me of a husband and wife

1 (17m 57s):
Mentality. Your husband says, well, she got do this. And the wife said, no, okay. I tell a couple, you know what? Work on you.

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And you become a better person. Cause if you become a better person, then logically the person who is in love with you once will come better too as well. But the problem is that we were looking for a miracle or government to make us better. That, you know, I don’t have to do any work. No, you do have to do some work you’re then there is some unforgiveness Captain Hunter, you’d be surprised how many people can not move on in their relationship

1 (18m 31s):
Because they will not let it go. Yeah. You want to go to the parent? Listen, I understand that. Oh yeah. That’s something that I struggled with myself. We all decide to be, to be very clear and very honest. But I think that it’s important that we have these conversations and understanding where we’re going. I think that the relationship on your analogy is correct. And we have to, we have to work through it. We have to work through it. We’re not going to get anywhere by being at each other’s throat. And all that. A statistic says that most black murders are by people who are the same color, also white murders by people at the same color.

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So I mean, Hispanic, you know, and that’s all because of surrounding is all because of the venue that people ran at. Of course they are taxed on that looks like them.

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And if I’m wrong, please tell me. I know.

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And we will. Most of murders or is something that Julie no, the majority of times, or are they totally strangers? No, they’re, they’re mostly committed by people that, you know, it’s very random. One more time for me, sir. They’re mostly committed by people that, you know, so that’s out, I’m sorry. I full of priests coming off. I will update you on the Oregon. Yeah.

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So that tells me right there. Is that again? How can we, so, so let’s say America does get better if we don’t get better.

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Yeah. I ain’t going to change. I can’t that’s and that’s why my plan doesn’t want to talk about what we need to do. I believe it was the ability. I can never find the school, but I’ve just heard of this are attributed to Elijah Muhammad B instructor about CMX. He said that before we, before we ask to integrate with other people, we need to take a look at ourselves. So sure. And you know, he said, this is back in the fifties, forties or fifties. So true. And so this is, this is an absolute true statement. We can’t ask the police to change. You cannot.

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Oscar wives is key. And I see white people expect us, accept us into their jobs, into their office, into the communities and we’re, and we’re behaving this way. And we can’t pretend that we’re not behaving this way. We cannot, we cannot. Where, where are the most dangerous communities in America? We all know where they are, right? Let’s not one around here with blinders on pretending like this isn’t happening is happening. We know where the murder capitals are. Right. In Chicago, in Baltimore. I can’t lie about that. My brother, we know that

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We know where they are. Right, right. And so we, we, people who want people want to get out of those places, let’s go deep about all the time it got. Okay. Okay, good, good. Let’s go deeper. So part of the flavor again. So, so here we are on slave ships. 50% of us did not make it a, so here we are. And then we come to America and we are forced to kind of like outside slave inside slave, you know, usually inside of slave usually were the offspring of the master.

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And here you have the outside back to your point. So good hair, bad hair, light skin, dark skin. So you see this microcosm of negativity among us. Now there no white person around nowhere. That’s us.

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No good hair, bad hair.

2 (21m 42s):
Well, so, so, so, so until we learn, I am not running for governor. So stop it until we learn how to love ourselves again. I mean, we deserve reparations. Now I do agree. We need to give some money. You know what? You know, every, you know, you know, the Indians have their casinos and those who are Asian, the descender, they were paid for, you know, interment camp. But let’s say they give all of us a million dollars.

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Is that gonna change us? I say within an hour to be right back into blue and white people’s hands to be buying houses and cars and, and all that kind of stuff. So no rims. And then chicken shops, since they’re there they’re is a narrative that has to say, we have to heal within ourselves because the culture we came from in Africa, we were tribes. We were rites of passage. You have women call them there two year old son, man, man, man, that ain’t no man, man, that baby baby, you know, but again, because of the mind, when that were in here, you are instilling in a young boy.

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He is a man already and it has improved for himself. So that’s why he can come to a, Police all legal will come to somebody and cut me off while I’m trying to put pumping the gas, let it go brand that he, all of a sudden now he deserved that right. When he hasn’t been pulled yet, does that make sense? I think that that’s one of the things that we need to prove that we need to have With instilled within our community. Yes. Is a place where it says you have accomplished these things. Yes and no. You have the title of man, as you said to me, and I appreciate that. I earned a title Captain you earned it, sir.

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You have earned it. No one gave it to you. You earned that. You earned the title of Dr right, exactly. Around. And so we need to, we need to replace it. That’s a good point. That’s a good point. We need to place it on, on our young boys. Yes. Especially until you have done these things. Yes. You are a boy. Right? And now once you have completed, now I accept you into the tribe. You sit in the front as

1 (23m 46s):
An elder is so needed. And I, and so, and so I, I applaud every entity and there are different groups around the country who are doing this. Right. And that is vitally, vitally, vitally to do one together. We should. You I’m not even just talking. No, no, no, no. I had one about two, three years ago and that’s called rites of passage and it was teaching young boys, a strictly of single moms, give us your boys for two hours. And we, we did some training of how to understand what it takes to become a man.

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Because again, yeah.

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How would you feel

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If someone just gave you a medal, even improving participation, medical here’s your medal? No, no, no, no. We’re not. I had a conversation just today. As a matter of fact, it was another conversation with you. I have a w talking about this, about this very exact thing in the fact that that we need to really, you know, push our people, push our man, and to stop here, I have a great idea and maybe a breakfast, I think that will represent your time.

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That’s a great idea. Maybe get in with T

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Black and Brown

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Offices and together, we didn’t do a rites of passage for these men, for these boys to be my man. Yeah. I mean, officers, listen to officers, corrections, officers, firemen. Exactly, exactly. All the kind of stuff. It takes a community. It takes community, right? It’s we all need to know what it takes to become my man. And we don’t have that. We tell them, I agree with you, give us a few boys for a couple of hours we don’t need. And we know it’s good to tell work homework assignments and all that kind of stuff. Yes. And so I think that that’s vitally important.

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And I mean, down for them, I mean, a, one of the saddest points is when a guy has This has his 11 athletic ability retires, and next year he is broken. You know, that, that something wasn’t given to him now I’m going to have to do things differently now. But, but certainly wasn’t giving him down the understand this, you ain’t gonna play all day. My brother, I mentioned, I had a conversation today. We were talking about that almost in that exact thing is that, is that we don’t know. There’s so many people who lose their houses.

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You know what we talked about. So, so Dr after the, in 2008, when the, when the stock market crash. Yes, sir. What community was, was hurt the most by the loss of houses, the new wealth, the black community Charles we, we don’t, we don’t know about stock market. You’ll save money, cumulating wealth say money of the black community saying, so give me some realms on is Honda.

1 (26m 39s):
It’s absolutely crazy. So I find the front of mine telling me that, you know, there there’s certain things that he had to find out along the way. Correct. And we need to, we need to listen. It’s not embarrassing that we don’t know. No, it’s not embarrassing that I, as a father or uncle looked in the past, wasn’t able to teach me things. As we mentioned, we were locked out of so many different things. We were locked out of colleges. We were locked out of the business decisions. We didn’t understand business and what it takes to run our business. So it’s not embarrassing not to know. Right. But we have so many more people today with college of education.

1 (27m 10s):
Yes. And grow with accounting degrees marketing. You had a breach, a bachelor’s degrees inside of this, that and the other. And so we can bring in experts and have a coffee and have a conversation in a church that says, here’s a budget. Here’s how you budget. Right. You only make $30,000 a year. You can’t spend, you know, the point that hit me. I was somewhere, I was watching TV and I’m like in tennis and I’m not a big tennis fan at all, but, and y’all forgive me.

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What was the young lady name? Sierra tennis player. Serena. Serena. I’m bad with my pronunciation. I say it again now Serena. So I looked on and there was a black, young lady. I just assumed it was Serina. Okay. It wasn’t her. So I went back and I came back again. It was another black man that I was in the street. It wasn’t hot. So my mind was once we get exposed to something, thanks change.

1 (28m 13s):
I thought that was Serina during that whole time. It was once we saw that, that, wow, we could be tennis players. I mean, I graduated from flying university. And so one of our claim to fame is a, I think it Gibson, that was the first black person doing Wilton a black female, but there wasn’t enough to let people know, wow, you can be that. So I think for us, the more we can see examples of that and then the better, I think that that’s absolutely correct.

1 (28m 45s):
And I, and, and I think that that is so important. I, that’s why I do my podcast where I want to have all these different people. One of the last, really recent episodes that I released was speaking with a black doctor from black female doctor from, from st. Louis, because I want people to see that. And she had trials and tribulations at adversity and was raised in a single mom, but she still made it to be, to be a doctor. And I think that that’s important during all this kind of stuff. One thing that I was very encouraged with is every time I turned on CNN with all the stuff that’s going on with Trinity, they always had some black mayor on there.

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I’m like, let’s see. And then going out of their way to get these black mayors. But it’s important that we see that it’s important that we see it. So we can say, Hey, listen, I can be a mayor. Right. And it’s also important for white people to see that because they can say, Hey, these people could be mad and upset. If you, if we just love with the plane decks, the key, you just level the plank and we can thrive. And not just survival, we can Dr. Well, see, that’s

2 (29m 42s):
Another point that America cannot deny. We care. And we keep changing voting laws to affect people that we don’t have. You still doing it? <inaudible> 1968, 1968. B war. That was three years after I was born. They finally gave the voting rights act to black Americans. Okay. Okay. I say, I slow for your time. So 1868, 61 emancipation proclamation.

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Got it. But it wasn’t a hundred years later. Yeah. So they enforced it Boston. Yeah. Yeah. So, so, so, so really, and actually we haven’t been free to two years and every, every artist, every scholar has always said that the 19th, 1970s, when black America became free. That is, so again, you, you say, why you people please don’t, don’t say you people, okay. That’s close to the N word is just this little FYI for y’all how y’all so mad.

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Cause who told me that? They said, if they calculated the, the wealth that black Americans gave in the Genesis of America, they will be close to $25 billion. And the reason why America became so strong, free labor, now we all know in business, the biggest part of your expenses is labor. So you don’t have no free labor. That’s straight profit. That’s why they don’t want to pay the people.

2 (31m 18s):
Right. That’s why they’re trying to, you know, get this lady wages and all that. Now that’s why a company would rather pay millions and billions of dollars to move from Atlanta to China or to Mexico. They’d rather put a million dollars because on the back end, they’ll say three sets of the c**k. Y’all gotta pray for me right now because I am so tired. And I’m going to try to do no dialect. Cause it ain’t gonna go right. Is that when I call American country or the data of the person I’m talking to don’t sound American at all, and I’m trying to hide your name is John

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<inaudible>.

2 (31m 54s):
I tell them, listen, you don’t sound like no job, no job that is so wrong. But again, it goes back that relationships grow because of truth and emphasize summaries. And in America among relationships, they don’t want to do with truth. Let me use my pastor’s hat on a pilot said to Jesus in John chapter 19, he said, what is truth? And so our relativity is still being done the day he died, you know what?

2 (32m 25s):
Well, that’s my truth. Now I hate when people say that this is a mouse, this is not an Apple. This is not an Apple. This is a map. But Mike’s with, with it feels like an Apple. No, no, no, no, no. My truth <inaudible> that bothers me. But again, people will, you know,

1 (32m 43s):
That’s how you fail. No, that’s a point of some psychotic issue because that is I’m not.

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And is that an opera? And then we live in a country now. Well, well, you know what? Sure. That’s an Apple. No, that isn’t

1 (32m 56s):
Well, I’ve got to see that. I’m sorry. This is a mouse. Okay.

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But, but again, until we recognize it

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And stop spinning, Charles we’re not going to heal in this country. I agree. You know, we got to get rid of this, this nonsense and these alternative facts and all this kind of stuff, but I will turn your back.

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Who made,

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You know, it’s really, it’s really a sad state that we are in. And I think this denial has really been a problem, but I think from a spiritual point of view, you know, you know, the moose has come home to roost and until we become real with who and what we are, we won’t stay stuck and things may and shell God forbid maybe and get worse. Well, I’m certainly hoping that I will not do. I think it’s going to take some strong leadership to really do some, do some truthful leadership.

1 (33m 51s):
Yeah. I’m not opinion Dr, T driven ego, right? I think do some serious reflection and serious reconciliation and healing in your speech to bring us about, alright, I’m gonna stop here because I don’t want to give a, give it away. Tell me about your podcast when they can hear it. Sure. So the podcast is a, I do a live episode every Monday, 7:30 PM. Eastern standard time. Captain Hunter’s podcast on Facebook. It’s also simulcasts on the Captain Hunter podcast on YouTube, as well as Periscope are releasing audio podcasts, which can be heard on Google, play Spotify, our heart radio, and just worry about whatever is everywhere.

1 (34m 31s):
Wherever people can listen to the podcast, you are really popular. I’m not Part, I’m trying to get the most out. So, you know, just trying to, I have a lot of different guests. We talk about a lot of different subjects. As I mentioned from hair to skin color, to psychology, to, to how black men deal with Police trauma to, to law enforcement issues and, and all, all things in between. So a lot of different subjects and topics and everything like that. And my goal Trop, men who was a retired State Police he agreed to as with the other than the rights of passage, as you decide about our rights of passage and that we’ll, we’ll talk about that could down the road.

1 (35m 11s):
Thanks for coming. Thanks for having me. I appreciate it. Good time that scare you. When you come back later on one day, I’ll come back and with everyone I people with that, we’ll be, I gotta get ready for my counseling. Hope you guys enjoyed this. I think this was very informative. My head wasn’t turned back, Backwoods. My, excuse me. Why do people have their pants all the way down to the angles? What, what, what, what, what’s the about that? Yeah.

1 (35m 41s):
Yeah. You know, I don’t understand. I’ve heard all this stuff where it came from, but I’m not even convinced as to why people are doing it. And I still doing it today. I haven’t looked at it. I don’t know. And you know, it bothers me and this is the This is the ignorance that we have to grow out of people with, you know, rites of passage. And so you listened to it. This is not acceptable. It’s one thing to do that and become successful, but your net, but nobody who’s doing that boy like mayors black preachers blinds, Lisa is doing that.

1 (36m 21s):
It’s successful. That’s good. I just don’t want to go in that success. Right. So w I don’t, you know, and so we had to change people’s minds mindset. You have to change people’s lives. And it’s going to start with the young people, right? Reaching a 25 year olds is pointless. We got a recent sending that your own. That’s why Rasta passage. We want them out. We want to bring back some about African heritage, which was a young boy was not called the man until he will be for the elders. And he said, you are mad. And I think that that’s very important that we get that. I often think about my upbringing and church and everything like that.

1 (36m 54s):
And often think about, you know, all this, every time a Sunday, we went to church and we learned Jewish myths God history site. Right, right. That’s all that’s, that’s what we learned. Right. Shy. Right. Michelle could have been to go Moses and all these people. Right. But do we know anything about, about African culture and history? Do we know anything about even just American black, black Americans? Right. We get up, we get a month in Venmo. Yeah. But that should be taught every single day. This year, though, that should be taught every single Sunday.

1 (37m 25s):
And that is, that is what Sunday school is to teach. Right. And that would instill a sense of pride. So when you go to school, the next son, next Monday, you, you understand that who your, who you are, who your history is, where you come from, that you, you just send it from royalty. Number one. And number two, that you’re descended from people who fought for you to get this education. And for you to sit there and be disrespectful towards a teacher towards the principal or two of your fellow human being, he is unacceptable. That’s not why these people were lynched and died and fought and ran away from, from plantations and had revolts and rebellions.

1 (37m 58s):
It’s not why they did it. So you can sit up there with your pants, hung down, singing and singing about the WAP in music and stuff. It’s not what it did it. No, no. I understand that my time is up. Hold on. Help somebody today.

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