Transcript What if friends send sexual pictures

Transcript What if friends send sexual pictures

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Welcome to Real. Raw With, Dr be this nationally published author and pastor has made it, his life’s work to helping people strengthened their relationship with God themselves and each other with 25 years as a licensed counselor, coupled with his own life experiences with the ups and downs of married and single life. It’s like having a counseling session right in your own home. So without any further ado, it’s time for Real Raw With Dr be hello. This is a

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Servant to our Dr Brantley. It was one of my two Podcast or glory to God that God has given me. And it was really based on timing, time factor waiting for a client to come in. So let me take the quick 10 minutes. So this is come up more than I would like to hear of a Friends. And this is mostly guys. I haven’t seen the woman to do this a lot guys sending their best friend pornographic on Sexual Pictures. Now I understand the whole mind frame of it as a man, but not a smart thing to do.

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Number one, would you feel comfortable if your wife did the same thing? Yeah, I would love to see your guys’ comments on this one. And also here you are sending Pictures and the very Sexual. Now this is E this is a bigger problem, right? If the, the Friends will you send in pictures too? You ain’t having no quarters or a sexual relationship with his wife or significant other that really can bring issues. So here you are, you know, sending you no pictures of, of anatomies, I’m going to Facebook’s out. I’ll be nice. You send a piece of anatomies on to your friend and your wife happens to look at your phone and then it all, and you all saying, you know, Johnny said this to me and you’re going to say, Hey, giant, didn’t send you because you know how back in the day, how you used to put a girl’s name under a guy’s name and your member base.

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And so your wife, you know, she done gone bonkers because you are resending. I sending or receiving those types of pictures. Now again, let me reiterate cell phone. Should I be useful if I say, yeah, the cell phone should definitely be, be used for Louth affection, keep pickles of eggs for me, or what, what we’re going to do tonight together. When you see each other, you know what I’m saying? But if you got guys again, I haven’t seen this case among women, but among guys sending each other Sexual Pictures

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Hm.

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I know there are other female anatomy. If there were other male anatomy of guys in each other and that’s whole nother topic, but, okay. So here you are sending the female body to your friend and having jokes about it. Okay. What if your wife is white and the picture is sending is black. Oh boy. So now your wife is looking at the friend. If she believes that your friends are funny, Oh, you don’t like to be married to your friend who is black, but I ain’t white. You see all the issues and, and, and gentlemen of the jury, he will listen to me.

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Would you agree? We don’t need any additional issues on the table and we don’t need any additional problems, because guess what? You could bring problems all by yourself to your lovely spouse. So let’s not bring Pictures okay. You know, your friend sending, because again, how would you feel? How would you feel if your wife is saying Pictures other male anatomy to your best friend? I don’t care. Real Extremely. If your anatomy is not decided to switch to a desire, but a size and she sending doesn’t represent you at all.

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And sometime may not even meet the same color. I think you have some issues with that. I already get her eight. So here you Is. So are you going to be fine with your wife, Sydney? Pictures, I’m a followers that is much larger than yours,

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And then

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It may not be the same color as yours. And you got to be fine with that. I don’t know. I don’t think so. So you know, and if you have a friend who you had talking to a, I mean, you’ve been best buddies since grade school, but if this is affecting his wife or isn’t, if you’re another and he consistently sends or teachers, I don’t know if that’s a good Friends, you know what I’m saying? You know, Hey, you are found the woman of your dreams. I mean, you found and going through issues to find her, and then

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If anything,

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And then this is controversial, but anything and only Pictures of sexual content on your phone should be your wife.

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Yeah. Right?

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I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, it’s amazing, you know, as men, how we don’t see how easy T a space of discord to happen with you or your significant other, because of which was, it was on your phone. Okay. You made the decision to do that. Right? You make the decision to allow that picture to come across. You made that decision, right? So, cause you made the decision, you got to also deal with the consequences because of that decision as well. Sorry, hopefully this is a discussion that will not happen in your home.

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Hopefully you got friends who respect your relationship with them. Okay. There are boundaries. My friends, there are boundaries that if you don’t watch those boundaries, they can affect your relationship. They can effect. And again, I said it to someone earlier, most foods poisoning is done outside the home than inside the home. Why? Because when you are in home, you know, the ingredients, you know how your hands are watch and all the other stuff that goes into making the meal. Whereas when you’re outside the home, you don’t know what the person did before they stopped cooking your meal. So here you are getting food poisoned.

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Why? Because you allowed himself to be placed in that predicament. Hopefully this helps out just a little bit, that those type of transactions don’t need to be made, right? Because when you make those type of transactions, right, you can only get yourself more in trouble. Right. And that’s something that you do not want to do. So if you’re talking to your friend and all of a sudden, they’re sending you inappropriate pictures to you of another female. And what, and what if, what if there’s any pictures of your wife by mistake, or maybe your wife before you married, it was a freak.

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Ah, and she got Pictures out there. I’m going to be liking that too much. And then you’re going to be flipping and enjoying yourself because now your friend knows what you got. So, so again, there are so many narratives that can be created by you having film of the female body part that you’re sending back and forth. So, and again, as I said earlier, you sending pictures back and forth and you and your wife and having any sex and you and your wife, it was not getting no. And get it on nothing going on.

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So, so she’s really frustrated, right? It’s been two months, two months since you seen the lovely of her nectar two months, right? All of a sudden, now she sees you getting pictures of a guy. I’m sorry. I, from your guy, friend of a female anatomy, she’s going to have again, I’m on Facebook people. I’m trying to be nice to her. Right. She might have issues with that. Don’t jump I’m. Sure. Okay. So am I closing argument, gentlemen of the jury? Listen to do that. Okay. Yes. It’s my own personal opinion, but the results of that happening, not too well, right?

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Those results will not help you to be closer to your loved one. All right. So hopefully that helped out, you know, I come on real quick to give words of wisdom, a good book to get definitely married. A couple of that shall have great sex. That’s the purple book in fuchsia. The top list there. America does show how race sex. I think that will be good for you because again, there’s over 8,000 guys, over 8,000 nerve endings and a women’s clutter is 8,000.

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