Transcript to Chaos Relationship

Transcript to Chaos Relationship

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Good day to day. Yeah. It’s when I have the time and availability, I kind of pop out four or five or Podcast later on tonight, I’ll probably be doing some of my apologetics Podcast and I do, I kinda hit and miss Podcast because again, there’s so many issues out there that need to be covered in relationships. And since I’m giving forget advice, just give them to give them free advice. And it’s trying to hit things to get things to a point. So again, I’ll get my emails. Dr BS. Real at gmail.com. I will get in contact with you as soon as I can. My website is Dr T C Brantley dot com.

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Give me a call at two Oh three seven five three seven to 77 and offices, whether it’s field Hartford, Waterbury, Hamden, and also virtual. So you want to contact me there also, I’ll give you my, my cash app. If you wanted to be a blessing because it’s Podcast to keep us going. Okay. They subject is not to put my hands. You know, the day subject is I’m in my Hartford office right now, but they subject is, are you Attracted to Chaos or you Dr to the Chaos now let, let let’s let’s let’s let’s go to the middle of the onion.

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You know why that’s why I say I go to the middle, the onion. Cause why appeal it? A lot of T here. Why appealing is a lot of pain, a lot of appealing. There’s a lot of reality that maybe you have just, well, that’s why some of us are in trouble, right? Because we don’t want to be honest with ourselves. Okay? So you may eat B Attracted to Chaos because that’s all you saw. If you constantly saw mom and dad fighting and you constantly saw this dysfunction, then your brain, this is very important to your memory. Part of your brain is going to say, this is normal.

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Okay. This is very key. Now this is normal. And so what happens? You will accept this negativity as normal. You will accept that. I cannot find a man. I cannot find a woman unless there’s Chaos. And you’d be surprised how many people don’t even recognize it. They got to keep things going. I mean, some of them on this, I’ve known to this, I’m done with this I’m on Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and some even make up other days. So that keeps on going on. Cause they Attracted, they, they, they know nothing, but Chaos now let’s go deep.

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Okay. So when a baby is born, when a baby is in development in the mother’s womb, he or she is surrounded by water. We are surrounded by water. Okay. How do we breathe? We breathe through the blue book. Gorgeous, fascinating what God did. All right. However, once the child, that’s what the children comes out wet. Cause they’d been in the set to be in that water. Right? That’s why some, some people will have, which is very abnormal man. And some people have babies in the pool. I’m not going to have a child though on past that time, because I’m not creating done my job in Jesus’ name.

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Amen. But you know, if you will have a baby in the pool anyway, all right. But after the baby is born and comes out of the vagina, it’s no longer going to be accustomed to breathing in water. Right? The child was not going to be to come up with a man or a woman. All right. The child is out of the womb. So now there’s a different environment. Okay? You don’t want to going, right. There’s a different, there’s a different environment. There’s a different motive that there’s a different narrative. Now. Now why should my beginning wasn’t out.

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But my ending will be an air. Okay. My beginning, wasn’t water. Not down that, but my ending will be breathing air because that’s what I’m really supposed to do. So why am I saying this? A lot of you were born in, Chaos got born in Chaos boarding homes, bounced from foster home to foster home abuse, like crazy. I mean, you you’ve gone through the gamut, go to you’ll get you. You’re going through the gamut of these things.

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And yet at the same time, you find yourself attracted to that. Okay. You Attracted to that. And that’s what you’ll find. So again, as I give the analogy that now you are outside the water. Now that you’re born, then I don’t see no one trying to go back to their mother’s womb and I’m going, that’s impossible. And number two was very nasty. Done. You know, some of mama went one time and that’s it. I don’t even remember it. I don’t want to eat him. You know what I’m saying? So it’s not. So it’s, it’s not going back to that.

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It’s it’s not going back to that mind frame. Why? Because I’m done. Yeah, no, but again, you can become a trapped into the Chaos or Attracted to the drama. So you saw him now, the maturity is saying, I don’t want to live that again. Okay. The maturity. Okay. It’s really saying, you know what? I lived that. I saw that and I didn’t want to be that anymore. Okay. All right. Why? Because you’re trying to move to another level and your life, whatever you keep doing that. Yeah.

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To create, I was kind of good with it. I praise God for that and think of where that goes. One more time, again, whatever you keep doing, you will create whatever you keep doing. It will create whatever you’re doing and you will create whatever you’re doing and you will keep creating whatever you’re doing. You keep creating whatever you’re doing. And you keep creating what I’m trying to say to you is that because you keep creating this drama in your life, you’ll keep creating the drama that, and somebody said, well, why is this every time going relationship? It’s the same. And, and over again. Wow. Am I repeating my past? Okay, well you repeating your past. Cause you keep recreating the drama. All right. So here you are. You’re found the man of your dreams. You found the woman of your dreams and yet within two months, it’s the Senator.

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You know why? And, and, and it’s not necessarily all the time is that as a bad guy, a bad girl. A lot of times it’s because you are so pressurized as keyword. You’re so pressurized by the negativity I saw, you know? So that’s what you create. Okay. One more time, again, whatever you keep doing, you are creating. So in other words is the provincial, you know, hamster in the, and the will going, but ain’t going nowhere. So I, I really hope struck a nerve. I really hope I enlightened you to understand that this is not what your reality should be.

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Your out. Your reality should not be based on, okay. I’m broken. And can we all welcome each other to the broken block? All the God brokenness in us, all of us have things that are broken in us. Now this is why counseling is so powerful. Why? Because in counseling, my job or anyone else you may go to, but I do recommend to come and sit there and do a pocket. You have to listen to this anyway, is to get you used to the new and have you hate the old? Yeah, not now, not here to me. It takes a very strong person to recognize, needs to change. Okay.

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It takes a very strong person that, you know, what, what I am doing is not healthy. When I was 200 closer to 240 times, I knew that was not healthy for me. I knew that was not healthy. I knew that was not a direction that I needed to take. I knew that that was not something that was good for me in the long run. I had to make a significant change to my narrative. In other words, I was addicted to food. I was addicted to what it brought to me, how it made me feel. Hmm. Sound familiar. Oh. So I wanted me to change. So hopefully this is, you know, this is January people.

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This is, this is only January. When you can make a significant change is say, you know what? I’m not going to be Attracted to Chaos and I will be Attracted or addicted the Chaos anymore. I’m going to make a fundamental change in my life. Okay. But again, it’s not saying I’m going to change. It’s doing the change. There’s a lot of people sometimes don’t know how to do so hopefully this is helping you in some small way and get them all to give. And 10 to 15 minutes, because guess what, what busy? I’m busy too as well. I know you don’t believe, but I am busy, you know, and I just want to hit it.

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I really put it into your system. So of my books, I suggests there’s a section here, although the God I’ve written 24 and nationally published books, and you can go to my books on my website, a website here, that’s my website. They can get all my books and the book I would suggest is single ladies get ready for your man and his book purposely for women that are shelf for dating. As you wait your husband to be this very powerful book lady to express it. If you don’t have a good father experience, very, very powerful book and helping you not be attracted to the drama.

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And for the men, I would have successful marriages for successful men. That book is over 400 pages, but it’s very, very large print, but very poignant hit. Miss did you go into where you need to go? All right. So hopefully you will get one of those two books and take it from there. All right. You have a blessed day and we’ll see you later.

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Bye.