Transcript Single Seminar
Transcript Single Seminar
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Welcome to Real. Raw With Dr B this nationally published author and Pastor has made it his life’s work to helping people strengthened their relationship with God themselves and each other. With 25 years as a licensed counselor, coupled with his own life experiences with the ups and downs of married and single life. It’s like having a counseling session right in your own home. So without any further ado, it’s time for Real Raw With Dr B
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God bless everyone a week on it. And we think out for that, one of the deduction for that, Pastor a thank you. Pastor Latoya for having me come down. I’m a company by my lovely fine as a wife. Yes. I said that a and she’s with me as well is going to pray father, we thank you for this time. Give us words of wisdom in Christ’s name. Amen. Well, they brought me all the way from Connecticut to New York to talk about Taylor and a half hour hour.
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Most of our points are coming from Genesis chapter judges, a chapter 17, and I’m reading verse to verse, and then we’ll go forth and please have your pencil and pen. So you can take notes with me as well. Because again, we’re living at a time where we want to have information for the Bibles of, without a knowledge of people parish. So judges chapter 19, and it came to pass and those things that there was no King in Israel, and there was a certain Levi.
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So journey on the side of the Mount Ephraim, who took two him a copy. You buy your ain’t ready for me. I out of Bethlehem Judah and it’s concubine played the harlot, a catch to him and went away from her father house too. A lot of Judah and was there for a whole month. I got 45 minutes. I know how to sit myself down after 45 minutes shop. So honestly this is talking about tailor made in your relationship. So you have to understand that for you to be the tailor.
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You got to first go to school and get schooling to Taylor. A lot of times we, we don’t understand that our, our life gives us our talents. So point number one is that understand that life is going to be your trainer and what you’re looking for. Meaning if you come from a abusive, you come from abuse, you come from the church background that were emotionally or sexually abusive to you. Then that’s what your going to Taylor help me. Somebody, a lot of us are fussing about the type of people or the type of woman for a type of man come in your life.
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But the problem is that’s what you are tailoring based on your past. I’ll say it one more time. Point number two, your past, when you don’t understand that it is, you’re a path that tailors what you want. And then you fuss at what you have. Y’all didn’t hear me. I’ll say that again. You out of a fussy about what you tailored yourself, you don’t like the type of people you’re dating. You. Don’t like the husband. You married, you don’t like the wife who married all because of the tailoring that you did yet.
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Your day like me, I’ll say it again. You didn’t like the tailoring, but guess what? You telling me that you dated that and the problem is wash it. When you’re tailoring, are you hearing me? When you tailoring, you got to stitch, you got to go deep, a sucky, sucky down. See a lot of us. We don’t understand that if we don’t go deep with the person that you are about to marry, you’re going to probably Mary, a frog and you think what’s your kiss. It, it turned to a press.
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But when you kiss it, it turned into a vampire. You don’t get that tomorrow. You gotta listen. You got to understand that, that the person I’m bringing into my life, all right, they are going to be there for a long time. So let me find out how deep there is. And I ain’t talking about deep. When you’re in the bedroom. I try to be nice. Say hi. Tell him, give him no, all the Dr my brother, because he know it’s not just a D I’m trying to be nice here. All right.
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It’s what you actually bringing to the table. All right. So again, it’s tailoring. It’s understanding that I first must understand my background. So in the text here of judges, chapter 19, we see here, how a Levi took a concubine stop right there. Then I know, you know, your Bible understand that a Levi was not supposed to marry a concubine up. We’re going to bring this thing up here. Okay. Wasn’t supposed to marry a concubine or have a concubine, but he did.
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All right. So understand here that, you know, in the tailoring understand is that, you know, you know, what I really want is and what God wants or what I want. I see that one more time again, because a lot of times what we want, come on point number three. Oh, you know, I’ll just say points, right? A lot of times what we want is not what we need.
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Write it down, sister, write it down, brother
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A what? You, God going to give you yes. In your heart, but it’s not what you, a warning is what you need. Hear me loud and clear. I’m in my second marriage. I love my wife and I wasn’t looking for a first lady. Yeah. I said it don’t start up. I wasn’t looking for the first lady and I was looking for a wife. All right. So I’m saying here that in the, the, the scenery is what I needed. A lot of us. If you’re not careful, you’re looking for a woman that has that hat on Sunday morning, or you looking for the guy who’s 62, or you’re looking for the girl that looks all together.
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Look out for the guy that knows things. But you’re looking for the person that may not be the person for your wife. It’s tailor-made alright. So yes. God can give you exactly what you want, but is it what you need? So here in the text here, we see this Levi, this man of God. Can we back out a little bit? Can we back up some more? All right. I know you’re a man of God. I know your profit. I know your profit is no you a pastor, but your still a man.
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You still a woman. Another point. This cell here. Oh, you didn’t know that didn’t you, you didn’t know you still a human did. J yeah. You sit here. That’s why you still make human mistakes. Now, a lot of times we’re not being truthful to be tailor-made did that. I have that telomere person, your life, your car, to be honest with yourself, a lot of us are not being honest. You’re not being honest. All right. You’re you you’re marrying somebody and your sexual libido is off the chain, but yet you’re gonna find, trying to find to Mary a Virgin.
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Mary, that’s not going to open herself up to you at all. And then you’re and then two years later, you don’t get frustrated. That’s not going to work. That is not going to work. Why? Because the B Taylor made a right to tell her mate or to be telling me, all right. You gotta be honest. What do I redesign? Yes. I, Oh, here we go. Again. Are y’all still there? Oh, I hope you are. A lot of us are looking for what people think we need bread or what we want.
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Please hit me. You’re not preaching 24 seven. You’re not prophesied 24 seven. It bothers me. You don’t speak in tongue 24 seven. Stop it. You still go to the bathroom. Don’t you, you still eat. Don’t Check so, so, so, so, so, so can we stop trying to be fake? All right. Can we understand, you know what? This is who I am. This is who I am. So, so, so, so, so let me back up what the prophet said.
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A prior to me coming on is that, you know, what, what am I dating? Because what I am dating is what I’m going to actually get now. And I’m going to Samsung. And Samsung was a whole, a lot of points about that. But again, it’s tailoring it. Okay? Watch up. When you tailor something, it takes time. Another point. Give me a lot of clear. It takes T I M E it takes time. Some of you are rushing to find somebody. You are rushing to find that man, you are rushing to find that woman and you’re rushing and you’re rushing because you know what?
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I don’t want to be alone. I don’t want you to talk about me. Listen. When I went through my divorce, I was two years ago and I wasn’t a hall either. Praise God. I know that that would be a horrible, I wasn’t on a horse because that’s what I was looking for. I was looking for something. Why? Because hear me, I had to have time for me. Another point it’s being a tailor. You got to see who you really are. They don’t like this looks like they don’t like, if you don’t know who you are, you’re not going to find the right person.
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You’re you’re you’re you’re you’re you’re you’re trying to, T another point. A lot of us are tendering what our parents did. We’re going deep here. A lot of us tailored based on our parents. And we saw it here with my parents, right? They went to church, right? They shouted. They screamed, right. They’re a harlot, right? So they got home. They attacked each other. You stayed in separate bedrooms or y’all, don’t want be honest today. You don’t want to be hazed a day.
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They’re in separate bedrooms. They stopped having sex. And so now your turn to tell a mate, what your parents do, no thing. It should be an evolution. In other words, trying to get better. And what I saw, right? I’m trying to improve in what I saw. I don’t want the same thing before I, why I see the same thing. Same problem. Same issue is time before a resurrection.
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It was time for a change. So it’s understanding that there’s changes again. I gotta be honest. So in this text here, a receipt, the Levi taking a concubine. Now a little bit, verse two, it blew my mind. I don’t know why it didn’t blow the left. Leave at mine. And the concubine played a w***e against him. Okay. Why are you surprised my brother, my sister. That what you married and what you thought, but she told you who she was.
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He told you who he was. He told me he was bisexual. He told you that. And yet you thought you could it, Hey, John, you want me to read it for me? You’re not ready for me. Oh no, no. He told you was going both ways and yet you thought you could change it. What’s happening with a two year. He’s still do the same thing. Why? Because you married a concubine. If you met somebody who told you who you were, who he or she was? Yeah.
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You don’t want to be honest. Hello? You don’t want to be real about what you are married. He looked good. She looked good. Okay. We got to get past that. We got to get past that. What did a Samuel here from? God that man ain’t looks on the outside, but God looks on the what on their heart. And once we understand that kind of looking at our heart, okay? What is really in my heart now, healing in a relationship.
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You can’t judge until you first, judge, you please. This is in tailoring. Another good point. You cannot judge until you judge. You see a lot of couples. Don’t either judge your spouse, the no other judge, a girl with a guy that day. Right? They know how to do that, but do you know how to first look in the camera and see your faults? So your problems. See your weaknesses. And can we go to another point and tailoring a Taylor sees there’s a week, a week area of the fabric.
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Okay. They know it. Okay. So in a relationship in tailoring the relationship, can I be honest and say, you know what? This is what I struggle with a boy. They don’t want to hear this. This is my issue in life. I really be honest. Now I am tired of people who are tailoring, but it’s false. All right. It washes. It’s not putting the right fabric in. I believe the text says, how can you put new wine in old bottle scans?
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Oh, okay. Okay. You wonder a revelation. Alright. What a new power. I got it. But are you being real with yourself? Okay. To be a good tailor, made a D to make things tailored correctly. I gotta be honest with myself and too many people are not being honest. Right? That they’re going on. Social media, trying to be something that they’re not. They go to church trying to be something that they’re not God is saying that in this time, in this hour, watch it.
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Can I only not prophesied to a person can not prophesied to me. I don’t hear nobody. Can I be honest with myself? And the reason why I feel my help coming out of me, calm down, come here to teach the reason why many of us are in trouble right now. Why? Because we’re not being honest with ourselves. Okay. You married someone who was honest with you. When you want to honest with yourself, I say one more time again. Or you married somebody who wasn’t honest.
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And yet you went on anyway. Well, you know what? He looked good. All my aunt, Sheila Gus on my arm. No, no, no. We got to go past that. Okay. We got to go deeper into that wide. Cause we’re like deep into that point. We’ll keep repeating the cyclical effect. I don’t wanna hear nobody. Can we stop this? Trying to portray everything is fine. I believe the Bible says in John chapter 11 verse 32, that Jesus went, okay.
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You’re not on the mountain all the time. My brother, my sister. You’re not in heavenly places. Can I go quickly to Matthew chapter 17? Yes. Jesus was transferred him. Yes. A Peter James and John, Peter, James and John was there in Matthew chapter 17. But Jesus says we got to come back down. You got to come back down to many of us. We’re trying to stay up when God said, you know what? It’s time for you to come back down.
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Right? Right. It’s time to be honest with yourself. Why? Because in between a tailor, I got to understand, I got to investigate the material home. All right. I have to be the, so when you make it telling me to close, I don’t have one yet, but in God’s time. Okay. First got to make sure that the cloth ain’t cheap. If you got cheap cloth, you’re going to have a cheap telling me soup a dress.
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In other words, I got to find something that is worth value. A prophet talking about that earlier. Whether they on that. In other words, if the person doesn’t value, okay, hear me. If you don’t value yourself and you keep beating yourself up, that’s the type of material you’re looking for. And then to make it worse, you’re going to go off will be p****d off at the person that you have in your life. You can’t do that. You can’t do that. You have to be saying, all right, God, where’s the value with me because if it, I don’t have value me should, if I have not healed four, my father did to me, if I have not here from the sexual abuse, maybe for this, if I have not healed that the Pastor took me behind the church and sexually molested me.
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If I have my year from that, I have not healed how the deacon did me wrong. And I was trying to be the junior, a shot or the junior deacon and the male usher sexually abused me. And because he sexually abused me. And because I’m a male now I’m confused. Why? Because the foundation was affected. Y’all don’t want to hear me today, but I’m right here in your corner, right? Yeah. Yeah. Why? Because that initial point and one with the fabric.
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Okay. Listen, I don’t care about the dress. I don’t care about the suit. It’s about the fabric. I said that again. I know the point. It’s not about the dress. It’s not about the suit. It’s about the fabric. And you have to be honest that you know what? As a five year old child, you will touch inappropriately. I’m talking to somebody right now. Leave me as a two year old. My step, daddy did things to me that my mother did not recognize. And the reason why this is so deep and let me go even deeper.
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Oh, we have a lot of women who talk about this sexual abuse. Oh, we will have a lot of statistically. One out of every three, women have been sexually abused. I’m going DP as a buyer, but we don’t hear about the men being sexually abused. And then we said, well, he’s acting effeminate or, or their things in his life. You know why? Because there were, he was touched. His fabric got jacked up. I don’t hear nobody does that, that something happened in his early age, on his private with a age that messed up his fabric.
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Now hear me. God cannot kill until your first confess. Woo. A pastor and Tony, how can God help you find a mate in your life? If you don’t first confess the sin someone did to you. Now hear me, let me go into my castle trays. A lot of times a molester or someone that puts you in that place will make you feel it was your fault.
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Woman of God, you developed early. Oh, we’re not used to hearing this. Jen lady you develop early. So your stepfather or your uncle touched you inappropriately. Okay? Here you are young, man. You’re looking like you’re looking appropriate and here comes your uncle. Young man touching you inappropriately. So until you are able to confess, all right, God this happened to me until you able to confess God, all right, God this move.
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This actually moved into my life. The fabric is going to be jacked up and what it’s going to be tailored into.
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Judges chapter 19, the Levi got a concubine. Alright, let’s go deeper. So a concubine in the Bible days was not a white, a calm mind and train training. Tony was a side Check okay. But the concubine and the wife knew each other. Okay. That was the old test for your brother. But can’t do that in the morning to when they join it. I don’t want to hear no letters. I don’t wanna hear no. What? Your emails that all right. I got a revelation. Now I can have a laugh with a copy of mine.
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No, you cannot. Okay. You cannot have a concubine and a wife at the same time. All right. So here he takes a copy of the lever. The lever is not supposed to take account of your mind, but the Levi tapes, a concubine, okay. Later on, read the texts or judges chapter 19 and see what happened because of what happened here. The cocky bond is attacked by the city of all the sexuals attacked.
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And then what she is ravish inappropriately for over 24 hours. I mean, the text is in the Bible, Genesis chapter 19, and she’s at the door and she’s dead. But the Levi didn’t cover her because she was just a cocky bond. Okay? Give me ladies and gentlemen with a person doesn’t value you, does it make you feel important? They’re not going to tell him that you correctly wash it.
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A lot of us, if you’re not careful, the person, your life will make you go down to their level or I’m teaching somebody. You will make you go down to their level. Okay? Then we’ll make you go down. One of my clients say a doctor. B my husband is Asian. In other words, they are making me to something that I don’t want to be are teaching. I’m teaching C why should say out the fabric must understand that when it takes Taylor touches them, this I’m a value.
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I yes, yes, sir. The man is the leader of the home. Yes, yes. But the Bible also says again, and these are the five that you must submit each other one to one another is constantly borrowing one to another. It’s constantly mowing one to another. When your not doing that one to another, then you’re not going to be tailored me. Now God go even deeper. I will a good relationship.
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You’re tailoring each other. Woo. This is good. Today. When you are going to relationship, you are tailoring each other. In other words, I’m becoming what you want me to B and you becoming what I want it. You know, it’s going to each other, you know, the husband is tailoring. The wife and the wife is telling each other. I should. It’s a real quick. I detest. I hate, I cannot stand the phrase.
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Happy wife, happy life. I cannot stand that because it’s impartial. It’s not complete. It should say really happy wife, happy husband, happy life. That’s how you do it. That’s how you put it in order. But a lot of times we don’t have that order where we don’t have that place, right? We’re not doing the wife, doing the husband.
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There’s too many churches with a wife, a husband. Are you emotionally intimate with the members? All with the people at the church, but they’re not emotionally is sexually intimate at home. You can’t do that. I’m sorry. You can’t do that. I know that talking about. Cause I did that in my first marriage. So I know what I’m talking about. At that point, he figures I’m pointing at myself, trying to get yourself together. A lot of clear again, you are going to the church ministry.
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Everybody has With everybody speak to everybody as a whole. When did that? C, C a good Taylor and Taylor. And I’m constantly looking for the touching on the morning with my wife. I’m laying hands on a regular woman. Praise. She lay hands on me two as well.
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Don’t be nosy now. Okay. Because with Taylor, I’m teaching somebody with Taylor, making each other for me, tell you all about this. But when I was dating her, you know, I was a certain part of the body. Okay. But that girl tailored, maybe to learn another part of her body now and have a nurse and guess what is working now?
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I’m married. I’m telling me that particular thing. Let it go. Brantley anyway. Alright. Alright. So the fabric, I can’t get away from this. All right. That I got to check my fabric. I got this. Alright. Also the Telemate is stitching. It’s work. It’s going to hurt. Okay?
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How can you be what you want God to be for you for that mate before your spouse, if your married right now, when you’re not going to go through the stitching process, there are holes in all of us. There are pain and all of us, see, this is what I don’t like about the church would not be Real. There are holes. There are pains and all of us that we need stitched up. There are things in us that we need God to allow us to work on.
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But guess what? God can’t fix it. If you don’t confess it, how could God fix it? If you don’t confess it. So here God is trying to stitch you. Why it’s tailor made. It’s not factory. It’s telling me it’s individual Philippians one and six. That once, once God starts something, he will finish it. And so a lot of us are still single because when God stopped, the stitchy rerun.
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Another point God was stitching. You God was trying to put, but it hurt. The process, hurt the divorce, hurt the separation hurt going back into your past, but what your father, your stuff out of the ditching, you, but God was trying to stitch you, but you did not want God defensive stitching. So that’s why you still Singles. Don’t get mad at me. I’m just trying to be honest.
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Tailoring. God is Taylor. And so once. Okay. And even before the stitching, there’s a cutting Lord have mercy. There’s a cutting. You don’t just take fabric and praise. No, no, no. The Taylor must cut is God trying to cut so that you can be stopped the process. Listen, there is no tailoring. There is no husband.
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There is no wife there. No dating until you first allow the cutting until you first allow God alright. I know you will abuse. God’s trying to cut that out of you. I know you are hurt. You will engage. And the guy left you for another man or the guy left me for another girl. God was padding. God’s trying to, I’m talking to somebody right now. God is trying to cut fat out of you.
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God is trying to cut that point out of you. Yes, it was said, yes, they put the standard. You, he has to put the painting. God just try to cut it out once God cuts. So with a solid machine, are you guys getting me? I got 15 more minutes. I don’t believe at a time when God is trying to first. So, but here the Levi judges 19, he was trying to get a copy of mine.
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He was looking for a while. You will live with that. Now you’re looking for free. No praise. The Lord. I am a certified free. I’m a Bishop. I’m a scrapper freak. My God, John I’m a lot morning, noon, and night midnight to let it go. Brantley but I enjoy a lot because I know who I am, but I want to lie on the cocky mine. Why? Because I first kind of go through a process of God cleansing me right.
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Then my two years of being divorced God was cleansing me, given a lot of clear while God was cleansing me. I w I wasn’t putting other stuff in my family. As I said earlier, I wasn’t trying to be a w***e. I wasn’t trying to take out 5,000 woman. I wasn’t trying to talk to my members there. Well, you know, do need a little conference. And I come over to am for a Bible study. That that was a lie. And matter of fact, if you insist on a preacher right now, since you got a brother right now, trying to holler at you to condom on and he’s married, tell him I will be no compromise.
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Sony had a hashtag that real quick. You’re a cocky by a spirit. I’m sorry. God, take a quick here. Some of you you’ve accepted being a cocky bond. That’s where I got one get descriptive. So you’ve accepted that you will never be as white. You ain’t gonna leave his wife. You do know that right? Cut there and see a lot of us.
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We want him, we don’t want to test. We want to test him on it. We didn’t want to test. You don’t want to test that. It will take for you to do what God wants you to be. How can God put you in the right place? If you don’t have the right mind frame? How could God do that again? You know, as I begin to wrap this up, cause I have 15 more minutes left here.
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It’s understanding, all right, telling me there’s a process you have to go through to be tailored made. Then I got here with me today and after cut. So I had the dress or the suit is first hop is first love. I read the Bible, says Galatians, two 20.
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I am crucified with Christ. Nevertheless, I die. In other words, I have to constantly to be telling me, I have to constantly be hum. After constantly keep myself on the cross after constantly keep working on myself after. Okay. So yes, I’m telling me, but I have to constantly keep myself dry clean so I can B. So I can be used for the back side. We used with my spouse sag.
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We used with my husband, listen, we’re out of the bedroom. I got to be telling me so my wife can use me. That’s about it. When I’m in the bedroom on a cop or the living room on the garage, come on, somebody. My wife has to be tailor made for me. And I’ll be able to tell her me for her. When she says move to the left, move to the right, to do that. While it’s being tailored me, listen, basically positioning only position.
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I let that as well and let it go. Brantley let it go. This is telling me when you turn with me, you’re not for your use. Your, for the use of God is used for your spouse. Y’all hear me. I’ll say it again. Will you are telling me, you’re not saying make me that the cloth is made to the, to the design and to the purpose of the tailor.
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So I’m, I’m going to change that. Taylor, if your spouse, the Taylor is God and your spouse God first spouse. Second. Why should I say this? I will. That is, he can’t be your tailor until you become with your husband. You got men of their time to be your Taylor and then not your husband. I’m sorry to be by your first.
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It’s got to be my husband, brother. You got a women out there. That’s trying to tell him that your sister, you can not tell me until you become my wife. Why? Because with the cloth of the, of the Taylor, the Taylor Olson. Oh, okay. Now how can you have so with Taylor and they have approached there’s no oldest ship.
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Can I come after the y’all who? A day? For five years in about time to get married. I’m coming out of that. Preacher. How long are you going to stay up man, with a preacher? How long are you going to keep dating? Every, since in your church, your vulnerable off or cause Joel, I’m talking to somebody right now. Cause a jealousy. Eat your church because you did it. Five women. Listen. When I got married, I didn’t date none of my female members of my church.
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No, because to me that was spiritual insects. I went deep on your own. That’s the, for a trendsetter. Those are my daughters. Those are my daughters. A lot of confusion. Alright, I’m almost done. So Taylor Taylor, and since I’m an interim, see a counselor to let me go deep here.
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So when you tell it to me, when the owner wants to put it on, you gotta give it up. Listen, when you are telling me and your spouse says, I want something she wants to out and listen, listen, brothers, y’all better. Take your seat. Your vitamin D <inaudible>. He wants you to lay hands on them.
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When they’re married, you, when you’re hunting, they don’t want you to read in the Bible. They want you to read them in the word. Alright, intimacy. When your spouse wants you, I’m there. I’m tired. You’re going to wake up. It’s about what’s your spouse needs.
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Alright, I’ve got two more minutes left. So in this text, judges, 19 Levi, Mary’s a costumer. Should America, sorry. Didn’t marry her. Check says judge’s 19. And one took a cocky way out of bed. Judah, Judah, praise out of some of y’all got people.
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They appraiser without a lover. And will you manage about it? I want someone that never with a praise and love on a touch that I aint got a job. I’m just saying Levi, Judah. Oh, he save. I’m saying he a Christian. I’m a Christian. It should work in my first marriage. I’m saying she say she coaching I’m coaching.
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Now. I think all my trial, I think I have all of my tribulation. Maybe a better man. The reason why I became a marriage coach will be rather than I B came into me cause of my problems with my first marriage. So I want to say somebody real quick. Don’t care how much you messed up. Okay? How many doors you’ve opened to meant to your bed? Today’s how’s your healing? I don’t criticize anybody because we all got issues right here to judge you.
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I mean it encourage you say it’s time for God to let you cut at a time for God. And so it’s time for God just steam, iron it’s time. God be hung up. Once you give your life to God through Christ Jesus, you can’t make that change. You can take that difference no matter help, jacked up you off. There’s a lot that God has for you. God bless you. My time is up. I’m going to talk about my two books and I’ve been blessed to write 24 nasty published books.
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The first one is single ladies. I tell you my background person too, a great Singles let’s get ready for you’re a man. I wrote this book a few years ago, a hundred pages. There’s a quick read. It talks about baby. Daddy’s talk about the mamas and daddies. And it’s really a very powerful book. And as being real with you, some of y’all ain’t Mack, you already ready to get married. So that book is definitely good. A book to get all my books on amazon.com others.com on my website, WW dot Dr.
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T see brantley.com again a and also my second book I want to highlight is a married couples now have great sex God and say Check. I said, great. All right. So that books, listen, if you really saved me saying <inaudible>, you don’t want to get that book, but if you want to have your freak on with your wife, that’s a point to get all of my books on my Dr. T see brantley.com and a also a counselor.
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As a my introduction said I’m a counselor out of Connecticut at four offices, Hartford Waterbury was filled and Hamden. I’m also a virtual coach as well. You catch me virtually you give me a call at (203) 753-7377 (203) 753-7377. I got three more minutes left again. I cover everything. A website does that WW dot Dr T spring.com. I’m also a comedian.
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I go, I come on a boat. He can sign once a month by God’s grace and he can sign October 29th. You go to a casino. That’s what it says. And my lovely wife, a Porsche. She comes with me and support. So again, hopefully I touched someone today. I encouraged someone today. I’ll get my website. Dr t.brantley.com. And I bless Pastor Latoya.
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J excellent job with putting this on and please be encouraged. And in my last three minutes, two minutes, let’s pray, father, God, the name of Jesus. We thank you for this time. This place we pray that we have courage. Somebody. We have lifted up somebody to not be where they are, but to go where you want to take them. I pray right now, Lord God, that would ever abuse, whatever pain in their childhood that was never really address.
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And some of them see their abuser every day. They see the pain who caused, who caused the pain and abuse and a lot to get every day. God, I pray that today. Start a new journey in your life that there’s no longer the blind John chapter nine. What they will see. We pray it in jesus’ mighty name healed and delivered and set free in Jesus name. God bless you until next time.
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Thank you. Pastor hope I didn’t mess that. And if I did pray for God, bless
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We also accept donations via PayPal at new rest, one twenty@yahoo.com for donations of $25 or more, we will send you an autographed copy of one of his books. For more information about dr. B. You can check him out at Dr. T see brantley.com or on Twitter at coach T C Brantley and on Instagram at Dr Brantley PhD until next time be encouraged and to God be the glory.
