Transcript Questions on Relationships
Transcript Questions on Relationships
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Welcome to real raw with dr. B this nationally published author and pastor has made it his life’s work to helping people strengthen their relationship with God themselves and each other with 25 years as a licensed counselor, coupled with his own life experiences with the ups and downs of married and single life. It’s like having a counseling session right in your own home. So without any further ado, it’s time for real roar with dr. B.
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Welcome
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Be of you enjoying yourself the day. I am honored to have coach porch with me today. Thank you so much. Thanks for coming coach. Thank you. Thank you for having me. So this is going to be a, a free for all where people can ask questions about relationship and EAP. EAP me the executive producers, going to ask the questions and then we will just go forth and answer these questions. All right, EAP. The first question, sir. First question is that are the two of you available for couples counseling as a couple?
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Oh, okay.
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We’ve, I’ve sat in on a few. I’ve done some parts work for him. You have, but then he does his counseling part. So,
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So we are available. You’ll have to contact us, DM myself or the coach Porsche, our or (203) 753-7377 (203) 753-1777 and ask for both of us and we’ll give you our rates and we’ll take it from there. So, so yeah. Now understand I’m the counselor. I probably will tell you what you need to do while coat Bosher when I asked you a thousand questions.
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So that’s how we got to do things. Yeah, so, so, so again, that’s the difference between counseling and coaching? Coaching is very different. So it’s very different from, from counseling yet a similar concept yet it’s a very similar concept. So what we would probably do for parts work, I’ve sat in with him to deal with maybe one spouse who couldn’t get past a certain situation. And I would come in and do parts work, and then he would finish the rest of the day.
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So as a couple, we will probably see each other for 10 or 15 minutes, right. You know, 10 minutes in the beginning, you wife, her husband has time with both of us separately. And then we come in together
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Because there’s a respect that I have for coach Porsche. And there’s a respect you have for me as a counselor. And, and one thing I’ll tell you in a good relationship, you respect each other’s strengths and weaknesses. A couple of years ago, coach porch had a, had any event. And so I had done maybe 10 or 20 different events, but even though I had done bigger events, per se, that was her event.
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And I gave my little point of view, but I didn’t take over it because there was a respect I had for, well, you were my, you were my hosts. I came on in a respect for you and not taking over. So, so, so that’s one thing that’s very important. For example, you know, coach Porsche is on my show, roar with dr. Beak. So she’s respecting for the most part. She’s respecting how I do my show here. And, and, and if I’m, and if I’m ever invited to sit up and chat, what’d you come to sit sip and chat because we will go deep on there.
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I’m ready for the end. Right? One day we have a lot of questions. Okay. So, so, so yes, a long story that if you want both of us to counsel and coach, you give us a call and we’ll take it from there. All right. Any more questions? All right, go ahead. Yes. We have a question. How do you feel intimacy in your marriage, physical animals? All right, now this is very important for men to understand.
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Women usually must have emotional orgasms before they have physical orgasms. They have to feel that you are connected to them. They have to feel that you’ve made them. Number one, if that’s not done, sir, you just having sex. And, and most women don’t want to have sex. They want to you to make love, take your time with them, for play. Really understand their bodies. Understand don’t touch that pot. I want that touch. And other like judges want all you want.
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And it’s understanding the cycle of point. So that’s my perspective as a counselor, your perspective, man, as the coach,
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As a woman, women have to understand men need sex. They don’t just want it. They need it. It’s a it’s it’s like having dinner for them. So I think the more a woman understands that and learn what it is he wants as well as her needs. She she’s communicating to him what she needs. The bedroom should be like a playground for her, for the both for both.
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So if he wants you to talk like a British accent, you gotta learn how to talk.
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Yeah, that’s what I’m saying. Sometimes a little foreplay is good, a little, a little, you know, a little play as good being light and gentle yet rough and ready. I mean, you just, you just have to be there. And for men, especially if you’re in an exclusive relationship, I would say that woman has to understand, look, I can’t go anywhere else to get sex. So she has to understand that. And when you tell it to her, that way, she’ll say in the back of her mind, she goes, Oh, there could be other women.
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And if she really doesn’t want you going out there, she is going to be, she’s going to be rough and ready for you. And she’s going to try to please you, but that’s just it. Make sure you’re with someone that has a similar libido, right? And also is understanding that the pleasing has to go both ways. Oh, definitely. It has to go because if the man is always going to the mountain top by himself, always go, moms never go to the mountain top.
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It’s gonna be some problems down the road. So there is something that, that dr. B and I will be doing in the future is a lot of intimacy massages and, and touch sessions. Yeah, I would say because it is very, very important. You can give someone a very sensual massage. Sometimes people don’t know the places to touch and everybody, we all, as men have sensor sensor parts on them and women, we have sensor parts on us too.
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And for men, it’s not all the time, the freaking clit or the nipple, like there’s places around the breast that she, that you would drive her insane if you go there. But th but you have to learn the body remembering that that woman’s body or that man’s body is your demean to enjoy. It’s your, it’s your land to play with and to enjoy, as I tell men, cause I’m also a, a sex coach is that a woman’s body is like a treasure map and you gotta go and find where the treasure is.
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That sometimes is that sometimes it’s over because women and it might not be the same place every time. It is usually not the same place at the same time. That’s why she gets sword. Knowing when you’re always Googled at the same place all the time, because she’s a treasure map. She’s saying the little part of my body, I want to be touch, but you’re not touching that area. Now handle that. Just a mistake that women do make is that they think men know it all and they don’t know it.
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All right. If you don’t tell him a lot of times, he doesn’t know. And sometimes I’ve seen and heard men do this well with my last woman, she loved this. Guy’s no, you learn the person that you’re yeah. Learn the person you with because someone did last two women may have liked something and this is not happening for this person. So get to know the person, ask them, talk to them. Do you like this? Do you like that? But I’ve seen in counseling that sometimes the man don’t want the woman to talk.
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I don’t want to, I don’t want you to tell me how to take care of you. I don’t want to, I just want to do it my way. I’ll see. That’s very selfish. I don’t want you to tell me I know what I’m doing. No, you don’t because some slow man, because some woman done faked it out and made him think he was all that. Did you go to eat? Yes. Some woman. Did you go down? He’s probably doing his same old two step. Did you slow down? And she’s probably like Lying.
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Not even being pleased in pleasure to and trust me. She’s probably knocking on the next door. Neighbor’s door, waiting for the mailman to come to get her real pleasure. The boy, listen, listen and talk. Like you have to communicate about those things. Yeah.
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Again, overall, as I talked to a couple of the time, the best expression to great sex is being totally exposed. Not just expose it physically with the clothes off, but exposed to mentally as well. Yeah. All right. Now the questions are all right. We’re coming back with segment. Number two. Hope you enjoyed us with coach Porsche. Thank you. Hebrews 13 says the marital bed is undefiled in his book. Married couples, thou shalt have great sex.
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Dr. B talks about married Christian couples allowing themselves to enjoy each other. Intimately.
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There is a issue within marriages, whether Christian or non Christian couples who have declined in their intimacy and this book color comes right at you. That, for example, if you had crazy sex, when you were not married, why would you stop having sex after you got married? And I know that a lot of reasons that comes with their spiritual in central marriage can cohabitate. Yes, you can be a Christian and love sex and be married at the same time.
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You can do it. I know it’s hard to believe, but you can
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Purchases of this book or any of dr. B’s naturally published books can be made at the bookstore at dr. TC brentley.com, amazon.com or Barnes and noble.com. And now here’s more of your virtual relationship trainer. Here’s more of dr. B Hey, well, people real raw doctor B and we’re with coach Portia. How are you doing? Thank you. I’m doing well. Or this segment we’re at we’re answering questions from the public. Go ahead, EAP. What’s the question?
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Well, one question is why do women believe that men should already know what they, because we should know. We wouldn’t have to know. We should know things on our own in that right coach. Of course, of course not so wrong. I think women, and this is very important. Sometimes women don’t understand that because of their lack of a father, they are really trying to bring something that they’ve lost into this present relationship. So they are assuming that the man know, but usually he don’t have a clue because every woman is different.
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Every woman is different. And the men, I don’t know why women think this. They think he should.
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No. What I want
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My question is, did you tell him? Yes.
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Well, no, I left clues. I’m the, this,
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You know what? Sometimes the man is too busy. A lot of people I know I’m not one. So I don’t like, I don’t, I really don’t like for people to do things where I’m supposed to read between the line, because I don’t get that women rent women. Yeah. You have to be direct with, with the man. He’s not your God women, especially women who are very religious. They tend to think that the man is supposed to know her. Every move her, every thought like, he’s not your God.
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He’s a human he’s spirit in a human body. He has it’s he he’s, he’s confused. He doesn’t even know his own thoughts. How is he going to know your thoughts? Sometimes a man he’s like, so the man doesn’t know his own thoughts. How in the world is he going to know yours? You have to say these things, you have to communicate. Then there’s the question while I told him a thousand times, but in what essence were you screaming at him?
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Were you yelling at him
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When you are yelling at your husband or your significant other, whatever, he is not hearing the subject, he is hearing you yelling. He’s hearing you go off on him and he’s not hearing the point of view. Now women will say, well, I’ve said it a thousand times and he hasn’t gotten it. Well, that’s a good sign. You need either a counselor or a coach to help you. And maybe he doesn’t want to hear you cause you’re aggravating and nagging. I mean, how are you saying it is my thing. Exactly. You know, how are you saying it? Are you rubbing his feet or doing something that he loves and say rubbing his feet.
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Hey baby. And I’ll do something that he likes like in his atmosphere when you want to tell him something about yourself. Okay? Okay. Yes, sir. EAP, next question. Or comment along those lines. How do you talk with a woman? Who’s always contentious. Oh wait, what does continuous meaning continuous mean? Always arguing, always negative, but just don’t know how to shut up. She needs parts of work. Usually that’s very difficult and you don’t want to stay in that situation too much longer because that’s going to make you become a person that you don’t want to become.
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So really it’s understanding that you try to talk to her, but if she’s not responding well, you may have to end that tour of duty because that’s not going to work at all. I say what? The contemptuous woman truth. You just have to feed her truth, but sometimes you don’t want truth, no matter what you say, you feed her and you speak
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To you speak to that part in her. That does not get it. Like sometimes you have to feed her and yelling is not going to do it. You have to be a smart man full of full of wisdom. And I’m telling you for those type of women, those three phrase, words like three. So you know how men are witty sometimes. And they have these like quick phrases. Like it has to be a, not a cut, but like a truth phrase, like something directed to what and how she’s doing because maybe and her life, again, it goes back to the male, probably not being there and teaching her.
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And she probably had a lot of women that did the exact same thing. She probably doesn’t even know, like in your counseling session, you said that the guy’s like, do I really do that? She probably doesn’t even know that she’s
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Let me, let me say this to men as well. When you date a woman to the best of your ability, without being nasty about it, find out the top religion she had with her father, because that speaks to volumes. I heard your fiance loves your father because the relationship you have with your father, you really show that to him and wow, your father’s not here with us, but he, he really appreciates your father because your father treated you well, because that’s how you know how to treat your fiance.
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Well, he’s wanting me to tell you that. So, so, so God, I’m sorry. Go ahead.
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No, and I was going to say, my father was he, my father was, as people would say, he was a rolling stone, but you know what? My father, he with his women finger again, y’all he with his women. He set the precedent for all of us, with the, with, with his women. No, he did. No one got mistreated. Okay. Everyone was treated nicely now. So some I’m sure my family may have different stories, but all, ultimately my father was the rock.
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Now
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People don’t go home and tell our wife, listen, how I want to do it that way. Don’t you do that? Don’t you do that? Our next question is, are you going okay, so, so, so, so, so really there is another question. If the woman is aggressive and direct, how do you deal with it? Boy, these are some aggressive out there with these crises here. If a woman is aggressive, that’s usually a sign. There are in P a I N a.
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And because you love them, they are just for lack of a better word. They are vomiting on you. They are really letting it out because either a past hurt or a past love, didn’t listen
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To them. Didn’t accept where they were at. And so they are just letting you have it. They are giving you all the stuff that they never were able to give out. And so that’s, what’s usually happening. And, and that person needs counseling. That person needs a coach to help them understand that you are not the originator or the stimulus of their negativity, even when you’re trying to love them. And it’s funny for some women, the more you love them, the more nasty they get.
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Cause they’re, they’re, they’re building on that emasculating that they, that they don’t even know is inside of them. Correct? Probably correct. From my experience. So an aggressive and direct woman remembered that’s a part of her and she probably doesn’t understand how to be soft or how to be gentle, how to come with kindness, soft and spoken words. I think that’s some scripture in the Bible. They’re about the soft spoken words of a woman of God said a soft answer, turns away wrath.
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Right? So first of all, to go to church, you know, some scriptures, I’m very impressed with you. Thank you. It’s built inside of me cause I don’t know where to find. I just know it’s in there somewhere. I search my search, my inner for it, but I heard you’re dating the Bishop. You know, I had it long before him and no, I’m not looking for a church home, but the thing the end of the show ask the question. Okay, that’s a good question. Okay, good and aggressive and direct woman.
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A lot of times with women, again, this goes back to the non presence of the man. That’s teaching them how to be soft. Like a woman could be aggressive and direct like my fiance. Cause it you’re so passionate. Sometimes women can be that way when we’re going hard about something, but also check for those soft spots in her. And if she doesn’t have them, you have to find a greater way to deal with her right now, whether that be by counseling, whether that just be by asking her that wisdom phrase, is there any gentleness in you?
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And you know what? She might walk out. She might walk off and say F you, but in the back of the woman’s mind, trust me, she’s going to be like, she’ll come to their girlfriends. And she’ll say, you know what? He told me, she has girlfriends. Trust me. That type of woman probably has a lot of girlfriends. Okay. She probably has a lot of girlfriends that are pushing her to be, doggish like, you know, to manhandle that man, a lot of times, women don’t know how to just step back and be a little soft again.
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Th th that’s very powerful because when a woman is
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Always hard and again, this goes both ways. A man cannot be always hard. I mean, you, you, you lead by love. Say that one more time. You lead by love. You. Don’t leave by yelling and screaming and being manipulative. That’s not love. That’s not love at all. All right, we’ll come back with our last segment. Hope you guys enjoying it. Then bring your, keep sending your questions. Our way
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Yeah. People. We are back with doctor and I have the lovely cohost for today. The lovely, beautiful coach Porsche. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. This is freestyling with questions from Facebook, EPA. Let’s go. How do you talk to someone that is stuck in their way feel that they shouldn’t change? There’s some odd questions, but I tell you someone who’s stuck in their ways.
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You know, they must recognize something is not right. They must recognize that when they come through the door, the goldfish run the cat, the dog run, but you trying to make them see it sometime that that’s the worst because they going to fight that because they have accepted their nature. And also that’s usually connected to narcissism. And when something, a narcissistic means that they are perfect. They don’t know how to say it.
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Sorry. No, no. I would say it. And you’ve got some very bad case. Yes. So for the person that feels like the person
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Should change, what part of you ask yourself? What part of you once a part of them to change? Oh, wow. And why does that part need to change? So these are how, this is how you communicate with someone and you, you see what their perspective is and you see and tell them again, men should have wisdom, praises that they, you do have them. They’re built into you that if a woman says, well, why should I change?
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And you give her your heart and you tell her why for you. This needs to come about again, sorry. This is, this is communication. That should go on some men like the rough and ready girl, right? Initially. But then when they’re in that thing every day, they’re like, I can’t take this.
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If, if you’re coming at them in the wrong fashion, I stayed in counseling at the time, your approach is already, we’ll always demonstrate the landing. You know, like what, you know, when the approach of the plane is jacked up, I guarantee you, the landing is going to be Rocky. So if you coming at them with that finger, with the head, with the rolling eyes, I’m telling now as dead on arrival. Yeah. Like there’s a thick thing between sassy.
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Oh, okay.
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And just hard, you know, what’s hard and nasty. Sassy is like, like when, when a woman’s sassy, she’s like feminine with it. She’s sexy with it. Like it’s cute all the time, no matter what, but when she’s hard and just nasty with it, that’s just, it just is just hitting a burden of, you’re a part of the burden that that will become frustrating. Let me break it down for you. She’s probably the type of woman that will call a cop on you in two seconds and ruin your whole world. When you sassy, he hears hi, baby.
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I want to do a right when your heart was off or this one, my mama said, Oh Lord, Ooh. When you get one of those, you’re not really dating the woman at all. You’re probably dating her mother and directly, my mama said, okay, that’s a dangerous thing. That’s another topic. But go ahead. Yes.
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Since we’re going there, how does one deal with a mama’s boy or, okay, I’m going to tell him myself. In my first marriage, I was a mama’s boy and I made my mother more important than my first wife. And that was one of my problems. And I had to grow out of that. My mother used to call me by another name that will never say, cause I never want to hear it on. The mama said. And so my ex wife said, you know, why is she calling you that? And I had to tell my mom after awhile, mom, that’s not my name anymore.
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My name is Timothy. And so when you’re dealing with a mama’s boy, that guy, and again, I’m speaking from my own spirits has to recognize, you know what? There’s a change. There’s a move. Now, sometime mamas don’t want to recognize that because you want to keep your boy and a little, little cage and you’ll still burp
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Him and breastfeed him. And the wife was saying, no, he comes to my breast, not your breast mama. So it’s really understanding that he has to grow up. Do you respect your mother? Yes. But not at the expense of your wife or your girlfriend? Well, Oh boy. I have one son. Yes. One birth son that I had many other sons and I’m always down for the guy. I love him. Mommy’s boy. Okay.
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Yeah. They’re gentle. They’re sweet yet though. I’m woman enough to allow them as they grow to be men. Okay. I know that my son, which he’s been doing cleaving away from his mother, like very quickly every day, and I respect that you want him to grow? You want him to, to nurture and love, but I’m always calling my baby tanking. Okay. I’m going to always call him. And I wish some woman would tell me not to call my baby something. I’m gonna tell you right now, this is gone. Well, it probably will be a fight.
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Don’t catch no case now, but that’s where women, sometimes a wife, you see, I don’t know what that scripture is that tells her. She has seniority over everything. Guess what? Oh, wife is an important role, but a wife has wisdom. A wife has, we can always have a wifey or, or somebody you’re I guess, married to, but a wife is, is she’s full of wisdom.
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And she understands that, you know what? At some point I might be a mother. And at some point I may have compassion, need to have compassion. But at the same time though, the husband cannot make the mother more important than the wife though, because the Bible says you should clean. I think mother and father, I understand that. But my mom always, yeah, there is a very different perspective. Well, because, well, how do you feel about your daughter? How do you feel? I know, I know that you love your daughter, my daughter, but I need someone to pay for it.
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But I guarantee, I guarantee you that if she’s with someone, you will tell her if this guy, the, the, the, you know, you can always come to daddy. Oh, of course. Okay. So a mom feels like that too. When you cannot talk to this woman, she’s being crazy. You know, your mom is always here, but again, we have mothers because there’s what sons, how do you feel? I’m telling you right now, if that boy is always wanting to do his mama was saying, that’s going to be a problem.
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The wife, hopefully, hopefully we’re all rearing great men that are going to grow. I’m talking about women. I’m talking about wives. You know, a woman I’m not talking about, I’m not talking about these mothers that manipulate their sons, 24 seven. They stuck to the breasts. Come on, boy. I’m not talking about, I’m not talking about that. That type of emasculating mom, I’m talking about a woman who’s raring her son into, into something like there’s a certain respect. And I, and, and there’s a video going around on Facebook where there’s a little boy named James, have you seen it?
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He’s he’s, he’s trying to tell his mother about mama. That’s my girl. He’s like, <inaudible>, he’s about five years old. I’m on Walmart. And so, and so the guy, the guy, there’s a guy that like, like he talks about it and how they have the commentators. And so he said, man, if every guy could be like this and really tell their mothers, well, they probably have, you know, emasculating mothers that that’s a whole nother topic as well.
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So, but I mean, I know the type of son that I rared and, and well, even for TJ, who’s my son. And I’m like, no, you know, just, yes. I know. Next question, sir. How do you feel about your boy? Is it like, or yeah. Or how do you, how do you feel about your son? Like how does that, how does a man deal with? Cause I’ve seen, I’ve seen men, some of my friends that are like, Oh, I don’t want my son with that girl. Look at her.
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They’re worse than women are.
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I always remind my sons before you, before you go off and talk to this woman, would you deal with her the same that you deal with your mom?
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See? But see, but it goes back to that.
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Would you be able to deal with it,
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Your mom, it goes back to that. That goes back to the point perspective. Is that how a child is raised is how he will raise his family or how he will do the same. That’s why it is so important that no parent is perfect. But to the best perspective you, you give you show relationships. Next question, sir.
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What if, what if people don’t like involving family into the relationship because family breaks go away
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Again. That’s a very crucial subject because it goes, here you go run into everybody about your relationship and then you guys patch it up. But everyone who you told about looking funny, I’m cross-eyed at the, at the mate. So that’s why I personally, when I now know this is where I get ruined serious. When I started counseling a couple, I tell them, I’m the only cook in your kitchen. Now I’m the only cook. You don’t want your mama. You don’t want your daddy don’t want your cousin and your show.
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No, don’t run the pokey. Alright. When there’s issues, I help the own meat cook in your kitchen to help fix this. Because when you tell other family members about your business, you are asking for trouble and you’re asking people to take sides too. So personally, that’s not a good thing because now you’re adding more salt into that wound. But what about say, I’m thinking of,
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So my cousins, Oh boy, my male cousins. They’ll be like Porsche. I’m bringing such and such by. I want to know your honest opinion. What do you think come on because they know I’m going to be very fair. Now they might, they might not bring them to like some of the other family members. I’m all right with that because we’re all, we’re all very protective of our men, you know? But in all fairness, in all fairness, I get this question too. But for me, I’m a family person. Like I don’t want the whole world as, as, as large of a family as I have my family’s very small, still at the same family.
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She’s got so many cousins, but it’s still, no, not really, but it’s still very small, but you know, you know, every last one of my cousins, even the ones in South Carolina. Yes I do. Yeah. So it’s not, it’s really not. It looks big, but it’s not that many of us it’s weird. But, but, so, so that’s a very, a very big question. I mean, it depends on what type of FA again, it goes back to the family support unit that you have. Right. You know, that really has nothing to do with the person you’re bringing into it.
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It has a lot to do with your family. Maybe because the family, you know, you don’t want the family to know them. That’s, that’s, that’s your part with your family support now, understand who you may be with. Like, if it’s me, if my fiance was not close with his family, and then I’m a family person I’ve seen where this causes that’d be different dynamics in the relationship because of, because then the person will understand why you’re so close to your family. And then he’ll, he’ll try to no, that don’t work.
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So knowing who, you know, know that person, all right, we are done for today. Hope you enjoyed us today, man. That’s a lot of fun. Okay. Will you come back again? Of course. Thank you. And tell your fiance. Thank you for allowing you and tell him thank you for not calling you 5,000 times. He never, he would never tell him. Thank you very much for that. Okay. Well even getting a contact with you again, again, coach Porsche at sit sip, chat.com, or you can visit my information site, sit, sip, chat.com or check me on Facebook.
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I’m not on a lot of different platform platforms, but I am on Facebook at Porsche quorum, G O R H a M. All right. And EAP will give more information how to get in contact with me and until next time people please
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