Transcript of UnMasked the Last Supper Podcast Episode

Transcript of UnMasked the Last Supper Podcast:

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Welcome to Real. Raw With Dr B this nationally published author and pastor has made it, his life’s work to helping people strengthen their relationship with God themselves and each other with 25 years as a licensed counselor, coupled with his own life experiences, with the ups and downs of married and single life. It’s like having a counseling session right in your own home. So without any further ado, it’s time for Real Raw With Dr B Oh my goodness.

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This, this

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Is doctor B Real Raw and we give it to you. Real people. We do not hold back. We tell it like it is because our people die for a lack of knowledge. If you hear for the first time I’m a counselor, I’m also a pastor as well. I’ve been, uh, I have my diploma and my credentials in counseling, and I’m not here to preach. I’m not here to teach I’m here. The council, because a there’s a lot of information that’s needed in the bite of Christ, especially when it comes to relationships, relationship with God relationship with Others.

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And most importantly, the relationship with yourself, because if you don’t like yourself, you going to let nobody around you either. That’s that’s how it works. So we’re on Periscope. We’re on YouTube. We’re on, uh, Facebook where everywhere. So, so there’s no excuse why you couldn’t see us and talk to us. All right. So today’s topic is going to be the last supper. Yeah, yeah, yeah. The Last up. And now he said, I thought, I thought you said you going to preach. No, I’m not going to breach. I’m talking about how a couples will go out and they’ll eat in public.

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But when they come home, there’s no discussion. Okay. That’s a form of blind people that did that. That’s a form of you telling people that, uh, you know what, you guys are a great couple, but in actuality, you’re not. So it’s a form of lying. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. You’re not being truthful. Right. Because too, the world you’re trying to show, Oh yeah, we are the perfect couple and nothing drawn with those. And we have everything in order and our children are perfect. Matter of fact out till don’t even go to the bathroom.

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That’s a perfect, but yeah, stop lying. And so, uh, you know, my, my, my, my, my context really came from my background, you know, in my first marriage, you know, a lot of times go out to eat. You eat to eat, you eat and eat. And guess why, why you eating you also, you also gaining weight. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So the only time you guys are talking, Oh, okay. See, I am really talking to about stuff that people don’t want to talk about.

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With Christian marriage has yet because we will eat out. And yet when we come home, there is no communication. So acts chapter five gives us a perfect example of Anna Niaz and survivor’s and how they were one thing in private and one thing in public. So, so, so really what I’m trying to encourage every couple to do is reconcile your private, private, right.

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And your public. Yeah. Because when they are not the same hair comes Gaia. When they are not the same, here comes miscommunication. When they are not the same, here comes the enemy to cause discord. So I’m trying to encourage somebody or I feel it right now, private and public, the way you are in private should be the way you are aware in public.

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But a lot of times we will cover up and we’ll use food. Yeah. We will use food. You know what? Let me erase this. All right. So Real use, will use food now. I ain’t never take note and I don’t know what we take Lake. And, uh, I ain’t never did nothing, but guess what? You are a food addict. Oh, I don’t know. Oh, I got people in trouble. Now you a food addict. You eat it.

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I, listen, I am telling you what I know for myself. A couple of years ago, I was 230 pounds. Okay. You know, you know, I’m about five foot, maybe five foot nine to five, five foot nine, you know? So I’m 234 pounds. Right. And I’m eating. Right. Because I’m trying to deal with the, what, what’s the S word. Yeah. Stress or EAP. Don’t like me today here. So, so, so, so, so, so what I’m trying to get you to see here is that in this a thing that we’re in core relationship, you gotta be real.

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You have to stay Real when you are not Real when you are not being forthcoming with your spouse or with the person that you are with, either with your friends. I mean, some of y’all act like you got to all together with your friends and the, and you go home to a quiet home that can’t even, even talking to you. That’s how jacked up you are. Listen. When the cat don’t even say me out to you and the dog, don’t say don’t even wag their tail about you. You know, there are some issues, you know why?

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Because we are doing our Last Supper okay. Okay. We are using food to cover. Or that don’t like me today, your using food to cover, to cover the pane, to cover the discouragement, to cover that. I don’t like what he did to me. And so you doing this on a regular basis and not being Real to your shop. So here, how do you make that transition? You gotta be Real. Okay. You gotta be honest with yourself.

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Okay. Listen. This is bothering me and we’re not just going to eat over it. Oh my goodness. Now I hear me now. Now, now I know the blood covers. OK? OK. The blood covers the food. Don’t cover head and don’t come up people. Okay. Your eating out now, please. Don’t get me wrong. Okay. I’m not saying you don’t eat at all. I’ll go. Well, but right now, because a Corvette, 19 people that eat not well, I’m sorry.

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People are still eating out. Okay. They just do is take out. So they doing take out. Ain’t nobody. That’s what’s happening with a lot of couples. If you’re not careful, you’ll do this emotional takeout. Okay? Okay. Okay. Your take out stuff, you know, but it’s temporary taken out. No, no, no. You got to deal with the issues. You gotta be honest with the, what, the issues that you are facing and your relationship, but when you’re covering it with food, when you’re covering it with, you know what, uh, is really not that bad.

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Do you know how serious and a nice has a virus was? They lied to the Holy ghost and what happened to them? They died. Okay. There is a slow death. And listen, I’m not picking that. Nobody here, I’m talking about stuff. I had to deal with myself. Okay. Because I wasn’t honest because I wasn’t being Real on an honest basis. I was dying. Yeah. I was dying. Thinking about suicide.

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My, my depression was crazy. I was eating like crazy, but I was still the pastor. I was still all the one people looking into, but deep down inside, I was dying. All right. Because I was doing my Last Supper am I helping with somebody right now? I was doing my Last Supper I was eating. I was, I was, I was portraying something that at home, it wasn’t. And that’s one of the reasons why I had to go in and get the divorce. All right. Because I wanted to be Real. I wanted to be Real.

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Okay. Can we say that word real? Okay. Okay. That’s the word that people don’t wanna talk about? All I talk about the Holy I go, Oh, I got the Holy ghost. All right. Or talking about speaking in tongues, prophecy all a lot. I got to have a prophecy. God. How about, how about, can we learn to be Real like, if the spouse doesn’t do what I want the spouse to do, can I be real with a spouse? If you can’t be real with your spouse, then guess what?

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You’re the last Supper when I can’t express myself. A matter of fact, I spoke with my fiance, a and I said to him, I said is a blessing that I can share all of my feelings and my emotions with you without you getting upset. You know how to bless him. That is, Oh Lord. That’s a, that’s a double backward flip where you shout. Right? Because I’m being Real. Okay. Uh, okay. That is a lost art.

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I hate to say it that way, but that is a lost art of being real. How are we doing with time to eat? Okay. Alright. So I’m going to come back and continue to go. Right? We’ll come back. And the next segment, Hebrews 13 says the marital bed is undefiled in his book. Married couples Dow shall to have great sex. Dr. B talks about married Christian couples, allowing themselves to enjoy each other intimately.

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Uh, there is a issue within a marriages with a Christian or non Christian, have a couple who have declined in there, intimacy and a there’s a book called that comes right at you. Uh, that, uh, for example, if you had crazy sex, when you were not married, why would you stop having sex after you got married? Then I know that a lot of reasons that comes with their, a spiritual central marriage can cohabitate. Yes, you can be a Christian and have sex and be narrowed at the same time.

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You can do it. I know it’s hard to believe, but you can

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Purchases of this book or any of dr. B’s naturally published books can be made at the bookstore at Dr. T see brantley.com, amazon.com or Barnes and noble.com. And now here’s more of your virtual relationship trainer. Here’s more of doctor. B welcome back people. This is for me. Oh, I tell ya. I know I’m making some of y’all mad at me. Whoa. How dare he talking about my eating Lord? Listen, listen, when we are not being honest.

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Alright. The Bible said the truth. Come on, set you what set you free. So when you are not walking in truth and you just eating over the conversation and eating over the pain and even in eating over the affair and eating over the thing. Okay. Can I be honest? That’s why many church, people, many church people are overweight. Let’s be honest. All right. Because they eating, they’re eating, they eating to do with their pain, that eating to deal with their solid eating to deal with that.

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They don’t do drugs. They don’t do no fornication stuff like that. Adultery. But boy, they are eating because they are trying to cover their pain. You can’t stay in that situation. You’re not going to help yourself out by doing that. So again, it’s staying in what? In truth. Okay. It, listen, listen, listen. If you cannot go to your spouse and be honest with your spouse about, you know what, that thing you did really bothered me.

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That’s going to cause some problems down the road. All right. That’s gonna caused some serious problems and is going to jacket your relationship. So let’s spell out Real okay. Because when you are not, Real in your relationship, you are going to cause some very bed, uh, points in your life and you’re not gonna go far. Okay? You’re not going to go far because your not being okay now. Real alright. You gotta be Raw okay.

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You gotta be Raw. Now, now Raw doesn’t mean yelling. Raw doesn’t mean going off and cursing your spouse out. Okay? That’s not being Raw that’s being stupid. Okay. That’s not going to work. Right? So you’re being real. You’re being Real E stands for it should be easy. Okay. If you cannot be Real ever, if it doesn’t come smooth, if it doesn’t come easy, then you’re opening the door to the enemy to cause more discord.

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All right. So R is for your, I gotta be Raw I’m with you. Okay. I’m going to be able to express what happened because whatever I leave in will become a presser, uh, a pressure cooker down the road. E it should be easy. It should be something that comes, that flows through me. Why? Because if it doesn’t flow through me that I’m going to keep it in or I’m on, I’m on, I’m on, I’m on somebody now you gotta let it flow a appetite.

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What’s your talking about preacher. Okay. Appetite. Meaning, you know, what, what is the flavor that I want to talk about today to my spouse, to my mail, to my best friend. Okay. Well, what is my appetite? What is on my mind that I really want to express? What is it on my mind that I really want to get out? And again, if I’m going to be Real, if I’m going to really understand, what’s really gone on in this relationship, then I have to be able to have an appetite to, to share whatever is on my plate.

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I got to be able to do it. And L very simple longterm, okay. Being Real. Oh, this is good. Teaching here can not be short term. <inaudible> no. Right? Because when you have a short term realness and your relationship is not going to Last again, it’s kind of funny the way that you do it. In the beginning of relationship, you have to keep, continue to do it in the what? Throughout the relationship. See that’s where couples get in trouble.

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They don’t continue what they did. So they’ll use Supper. Now I hear somebody. I hear somebody right now. See, I, you Dr B didn’t say, have to date you and take you out. See that’s how see some of y’all be manipulative right now. Okay. Well, well guess what? And says, I says, I want to be known Last Supper I don’t have to, I don’t have to a date. You, I didn’t say that low numbers. I bind that spirit right now. I didn’t say that. What I did say is that if you can have a conversation outside when you are dating or when you taking your mate out, just make sure am I making sense?

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Somebody to do I’m making sense. Just make sure you can have a conversation without the food. Oh, we’re in trouble. Now. I only see the Last Supper is I can only compensate with you when there’s food in front of us. And then the conversation is not deep. Oh my goodness. I’m going to behave when I say not the cause your daughter and my mind. I’m sorry. Y’all don’t know my mind. It’s all the EAP. Didn’t know my mind.

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See, see, see, hear me. When you have a good conversation, I’m going to be nice. I’m going to be nice EAP. We have a good company. They didn’t go deep. Okay. Now for married couples and the intimacy department, brother, you better go deep, but see it’s funny guys. Wanna go deep intimately.

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Come on, ladies. Help me out. But they want it, but they don’t want to go deep emotionally and mentally. They don’t wanna go that deep. A boy or girl. What’s my name? No. Okay. That’s good. EAP. I’m being nice. Okay. Well, you know, this is Podcast I’m The okay. Goodness. Alright, so I can say, go out anyway. All right. So, so, so hear me last Supper to get away from Last Supper is I can go deep with my spouse. Okay. I can go deep with my mate and not feel now here’s the key word.

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A shamed. Okay. Okay. Because when you feel ashamed now, what’s the first, what’s the first emotion that we see in the garden of Eden. Okay. Uh, they were naked and they felt what? A shame. Okay. That word is so powerful with couples. When you are feeling ashamed or I’m talking about I’m talking good. Somebody, when you feel ashamed about something in your religion that you want to share with, that will cause the Last Supper you will wash this.

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Cause I did it. I did it. Uh, so let me buy her, her favorite food. Let me find her or a favorite dinner. Alright, let me appease her. And I keep doing that, but we never talked deep and every time, Oh, you ain’t gonna like me, boy, he ain’t gonna lie, man. And to prove U in the last Supper, every time one of y’all do go deep. You know what happens? You know what happened? There’s a, what

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Does a fight every day?

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Every time you have a deep conversation, there’s a fight. You know why? Because you have to Last Supper or I’m teaching somebody every time we have a deep conversation, we go deep about your feelings. We go deeper about something. I saw. We go deep about the kids will go deep about the future. We go deep with that. You know how long you gonna keep talking to your mama about our business. Don’t go deep. About how many times you going to keep embarrassing me in front of the kids. We go deep. Every single time we in church, pray, God, you saved me to the women and you hug the women, but you don’t hug me.

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<inaudible> those are deep conversations. All right? And every time we go deep, we fight that a bad sign. That’s a real bad sign. All right, I’m going to come back with our next segment. God bless

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This is our last segment. I hope you have enjoyed. And I am so sorry that I took the covers off the bat about this Last Supper. Now again, you can’t allow yourself to go there. Okay? You can’t allow yourself to have this Last Supper with your spouse, with your friends. Because when you do that on a regular basis, you are going to get in trouble.

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Okay? You going to cause problems down the road because you’re not living in Real. Okay. Now again, what church people do again? People. I’m sorry, churches. All I know. Okay. I, I was born in church of God in Christ. So that’s that? That’s all I know. A lot of times, again, we will use food to mask.

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Okay.

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Max is the problem. You’re the mask. It. Okay. So, so I’m upset with my spouse. So I’m gonna go eat gum up and sit with my spouse. Let me go. Let me go get some Doritos. Oh boy. Uh, back in the day. Oh, taco bell now taco bell. And I had a good relationship because talk about over 24. Has that been a lot of times I got upset. Hey, I up taco bell, instead of going to Jesus, I will go to a taco.

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I’m ashamed. I’m going to shame the, tell it, you know? Well, you know what? Taco bell is TB like, Oh, I was bad. I will bet why, because now I was, again, I was trying to mask the pain. And when you are in a, uh, issue or always masking the pain, you’re not going to survive people. You’re not going to survive. If you continue down that process, you got to say, you know what?

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I don’t want to do that no more. Okay. I don’t want to be fake anymore. I want to be real with my spouse. I wanted to be Real with her. I wanted to be Real with him. How bout this is not just a spouse. I’m going to be real with my kids. I want to be real with my mother law. I want me to Real with my father-in-law. I wanted to be real because when I’m not Real then I’m opening the door for the enemy to bring me an attack. And the, usually the attack will cause more issue. I’m making EAP, sweat, praise.

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God. All right. So, so, so, so all I’m trying to say here is that we got to stop masking again and a nine, since the fires shows us when you lie. Okay. And some of y’all EPD going like this. Some of y’all, some of y’all see again, I know people. I know how this thing works. I know how this thing works. Some of y’all when you do go eat, you don’t say a word to each other.

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Okay? You on the phone,

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You’re looking outside. You want all y’all don’t like me. You’re not gonna look at your spouse in the eyes. You totally stop that. Okay? You don’t say, Oh, a word to each other at all. Why you eating? You’re not telling me that’s a problem. Wait a minute. So you got your favorite dinner and you ain’t saying a word to me, to others. That’s not, that’s not a problem. Can I tell you that’s Cray. Cray. Cray. Okay. Your eating.

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And then can we go deeper? I’m going to go deep on y’all gotta go deep. We have gotten so good at it. That wit non spouse.

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Oh, not mate. We talk

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During a dinner or during the food, but with mates,

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No talk.

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That’s a problem with that. One more way. Isn’t there something wrong with that? Blah, blah, blah. Isn’t out there. And then the brothers all the time to open your mouth is can we be intimate? You ain’t said nothing all week to week said a word. You ain’t even say your name. You didn’t even speak in tongues or a whole week. All the sudden With when your libido see, see, you don’t want to be real with me. T this is why this is Real Raw With Dr B all the sudden.

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Now all a sudden. Now you have a Zacharias. Don’t remember Zacharias, right? You know, Zacharias was the father of John, the Baptist and uh, a Zacharias. I didn’t have no faith. And so the Bible says for nine months, the spirit of God shut his mouth for the whole nine months. And then when Zacharias came with John, the Baptist came back. Uh, I mean, when he was born all the sudden, the angel touch Zachariah, Miley opened his mouth.

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So y’all stopped saying with the Holy ghost, touch me now so I can tell y’all I want to be intimate with my spouse. No, that goes to a male and females. I’m telling y’all that’s the Last Supper am I making sense? Somebody’s C, C, C, C. This is don’t talk about people will talk about the stuff that, Oh no. Why I say something like this? You knew how to do, um, uncovering, uncovering and people don’t want to uncover.

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Can I tell you something? And I’m speaking from experience when you don’t uncover, it starts to stink more. Am I making sense? Somebody Lord have mercy. I got some hate mail coming my way. I can spell out my spirit. It starts to stink. And then your relationship starts to sink. Yeah. Yeah. It starts to sing. Why? Because you’re not doing thing to keep it strong. You’re not doing anything to keep it in power.

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You’re not doing anything to make sure that the relationship can Last you just going through the motions, you just going through the motions, you just gone through the motions and you keep going through the motions and guess what? In the end, who’s going to be blessed. Nobody. No, one’s going to be blessed. No, no, no. If anything, if anything. Okay. What the Bible says, alright. The Bible says quickly that the enemy is a way that he’s a thief, right? If I can keep you and your spouse not connecting, and if I can put anniversaries or they got quiet on me, if I get big vacations, Oh, look at my car.

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Y’all don’t talk to him. Look at my brand new house. Y’all don’t talk. Oh, look at my children. Uh y’all haven’t been intimate in five years. You got all these things in of you, but there’s no connection. Uh, those of you who do come to my counseling services, you all know? I don’t believe in communication. I don’t believe in giving me. No, I don’t believe in communication. You know what I believe in? I believe in connection. Cause without connection, there is no what? There’s no communication. So I hope you will bless today.

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And you’re going to stop having these Last Supper okay. You going to stop having these? I’m sorry. Y’all so deep. Last take out Supper I hope you guys are really getting my heart. OK. The enemy fooled me real good. I mean, he really fooled me. So after church it was when out to eat, you know? And yet you go home. There’s no communication. There’s no talking. Nothing’s going on. You upstairs.

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She’s downstairs. Nothing’s going on. People that’s fake. Okay. That’s not being Real okay. And then for you to accept that I’m healing you right now. That is a trick of the enemy. All right. My time is up people. I hope you have enjoyed a EAP. We’ll give you more information. I’ll see you next week. And I hope that you will either a contact us. Dr B is real@gmail.com for our services or for our books. And also a pray about being a monthly supporter of this ministry.

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God bless you until next week.

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