Transcript Supportive Spouse

Transcript Supportive Spouse

 

 

 

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Hello that this is big. We’re trying to do better in 2021 and try and do at least two Podcast about a relationship and also about apologetics. And so I’m not going to do two today, and then we’ll come back and do charter two tomorrow. I just want to give you a quick advertisement. We’ll want to be at the what Barry Buring company. And you see a little red guy on the featured comedy as black history month.

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So that’s why they featured me. So the date is the 25th of February. The address is right there and we’ll come back and talk about it later on. All right. So we’re doing comedy at the Woodberry Buring company. All right. So the day’s subject pod coast is on Supportive Spouse. This is very important, you know, is that you with somebody who support you, isn’t that kinda obvious be surprised how many couples don’t have that support.

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And when you are not feeding each other’s dream, then there’s going to be some complications down the road, you know, it’s funny. Well, you know what? So when we first got together, you know, you help me reach my dream, right? And once we reached the dream, then I got my dream. You know, I’ll have a dream, you know, Dr. King, like if your mom and I have a dream and you know, nah, nah, no. I’m like your dream. Well, wait a minute. When you need it, your dream mat, your man was there for you. Your girl was there for you. So now all of a sudden now that now that you have come to the mountain top, you said, eh, no, you need to be, Supportive why.

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Cause it’s, it’s, it’s, it’s powerful. It’s connection. As you guys know, that is my whole dealing in therapy is having that connection. When you have no connection, you have nothing and supporting each other is connection. My wife supports me. I support her. You know, I came in kind of crazy. I cannot believe that at all. I think it’d be kind of crazy. And she supports, I mean, she’s been to all of my comedy shows. She’s been to every one. I drank her and I bribed her. I don’t do that. Don’t believe that. But she comes because she supported me and I support her. She’s in the a hundred day challenge eating differently. And I’m supporting her.

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Why? Because when you one, there’s a support. Why? Because I don’t want no other man support now. That’s why that’s the truth. You know? I want no other man and woman white and all, Oh no, you will handle it. And then she on Facebook and thank God for Luther. I don’t know why I said that. God look, Luther is six foot, five muscles everywhere. And Oh, and you know, my husband was busy, but he could support me, but I got loose. Oh, I won’t go. No loser on. I call them no, look at the devil’s a liar, Luther, stop it.

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All right. So, so, so it’s really important to, to support each other because when you support each other, it a beautiful thing. Because again, the scripture says, two heads are better than one. And, and ladies, you know, you know, you can best support that, man. You know, you doing something, you know, trying to better himself and you ain’t paying on mine. You know, when you matter, you 300 pounds and now you’re down to one, one 80. Now you’re trying to feed him ice cream and cake. Are you warmed up? You know, get back up there because the lady wasn’t bothering him when he was 300 pounds.

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Now that he don’t load himself. Nah, that’s easy. Now, now Supportive, you know, you wanna, you wanna to get sugar and you want to have diabetes. No, ma’am, let’s not do that. You’d be surprised. People do that for real seriously. So really support one another is knowing that you’re in my corner and I, cause it’s, it’s kind of jacked up, you know, it’s kinda jacked up when you go out there and you look behind you and the guy’s not there. You know, you look behind you and the girls. Not, they’re not a good feeling, not a good feeling and no matter how big it is and I are small is you want to be there to support your mate.

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You want to be there to let them know I got ya. Wow. Because of your phone, how would you fall? I’m strange man. Hands <inaudible>. I’m doing fine. You may fall. Never get better. Yeah. You know, I made my, my day’s good, but seriously though, you want to be that support. You want to be there for them to let them know that I got you because we live in a crazy world. Yeah. Everybody always want to be an alternate. Yeah. Someone’s out there. Want to be off. And then, well, you know, you know, your main available, you, you know, you can always call on me.

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You know, I am a go plumber, take your pen and pad to go somewhere. Some will always need to do that. So support each other sports and the dreams. Some of your, I mean, I’m hearing some of your saying. I gave tell that man, and my dreams, he’s a, he’s a dream killer. You know, that’s why you date people. That, that’s why you get the note person before you get to know the person. You know what I’m saying? You know, you just fallen in love with somebody and they don’t even know who you are. Don’t even know if that Nicole showed it. Yeah.

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Everyday you’re showing, Hey Don, Charlotte. So again, it’s supporting, it’s saying I’m going to be there for you now again, this is, you know, seeds of discord. Yeah. When you’re not supporting your spouse, that can cause seeds of discord. Yeah. That can cause a seed of animosity between a couple. Right? So, so you know what? You, you know, you get not there for your couple. You’re not there for your spouse. And so now your breeding, your breeding, you’re getting into your, your breeding and yeah, you get it.

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You’re breeding this court. Why? Because you’re planting seeds or your plan and the seeds and good seed meal. No, no, no, no. The seeds of destruction. And, and then one day we’re going to come home and lose are going to be there. Do I got a friend? But hopefully this encourages somebody out there to do, you know what let’s work together. And you know what I’m saying is one thing that’s why dating is so important. I mentioned it Raw quicker, quickly. That’s why dating is so important. Why? Because when you date and you find out the person’s where they’re going to hinder you or encourage you is very variable.

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Because if you are not in that right mind frame, they could kill your dream. And I’ve been there where a person wasn’t there for you fully. And you know, also let’s say it is maybe the reason why they’re not there for you because you weren’t there for them. And you do. You just can’t point the finger at the person totally. And not examine yourself. You know, it wasn’t really there for my Spouse was really there for my husband. Wasn’t really there for my, for my wife. Wasn’t really there. And you have to be honest with, you know what I’m saying? I’m up in there and we’ll be talking like export right now. But cause I wasn’t there.

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She just made Monday. Okay. So let, let let’s let’s let’s, let’s be mindful of that. Okay. Let’s let, let’s be mindful to be there for each other. All right. I don’t know what book I could recommend for that one. What book would I recommend for her? And you know what? Yeah. I recommend this book here. Yeah. Love the love, the hell out of you is one of my books I’ve written, you know, is that, you know, don’t stay in that bad mind frame, I suppose, about a place.

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All right. Call me, have a better mind frame things, see things in a, in a better place. So that’s where my books, all my books are Amazon Barnes and nobles.com. You get my books there. Don’t forget. I’ll be doing comedy on the 25th or the 25th of <inaudible> at the Woodbury brewing company. Y’all don’t see me on there by myself. Okay. Just saying right. Looking for counseling. My email, Dr. B’s rail@gmail.com, that would be Real at gmail.com. My website put the TZ Brantley dot com.

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All my books, the services I provide on that website as well. And to schedule time with me two or three seven five three seven three (772) 037-5373 77. And my offices, whether it’s field, which I am right now, Hartford Waterbury, and also do virtual. And so God bless you. Let me get my thoughts together and come up with another podcast and I’ll be done

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Grapes.